Read the 'Sex' section on the DJ Bible for starters.
One thing I'd like to add since you say you have little experience, and I don't see this ever mentioned:
When doing anything with a woman, be it kissing, making out, foreplay, whatever,... make it feel good for you as much as it does for her. In other words try to imagine being her and how good it feels as you do this or that. It helps keep things flowing naturally versus scripted. You must go into a complete sexual state. It's easy to get nervous at first and go through the learned motions without anything real to back them up. You must be in the "zone" so to speak. This is what seperates good lovers from the bad ones. Bad lovers grope, and do things that they saw in pornos. Which is bad because actors in pornos have no passion for one another. It's all for the camera. So whatever you do, don't learn from those guys.
