"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Slippery Sam

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I used to be a real quiet person, but worked on my social skills. Im not very shy now, and im not an afc, but im still a little lonely and would like to meet more people. My problem is that meeting people can seem fun for a while, but most people I talk to either annoy me or just bore me, so i lose focus on the conversation and it gets awkward. Im pretty much only talking to them to be social, even though I could give a **** about what they are saying. How can I be more interested in people to make more friends. Btw i'm just talking to people mostly to have them like me more, or get invites to parties and such where i can meet girls. It seems like a **** move, but Im bored with my current friends and I just want to have more fun around others.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bladerunner

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Psych eval.
Nothing to be ashamed of at all. Being diagnosed with bipolar disorder was one of the best things that ever happened to me because I finally knew what the hell was going on with my head and could rationally understand it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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