"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Being friendly or showing signs of interest

seanpersaud91

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Hey fellow DJs,
When meeting a woman first time (public setting) if she goes out of her way to help you , does that mean she's interested or just being just nice?
I ran into a woman as I got on the wrong floor. . Mind you I was on crutches as I had an injury with my leg. She was an employee for the gov't , but decided to help me find my way (I did not ask for her assistance). Not heavy flirting, but she went out of a way to come back down with me walked me to the main entrance where I had to take the another elevator. Before I had any reason, I told her farewell.

Now should've expressed my intent more boldly and attempt to n-close? Or was she just being nice? Perhaps she saw my in crutches and "felt bad"?

But in general, how do YOU guys differentiate between being nice and kind vs being interested?
 

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jaymbrs

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She's just being a good Samaritan.
 
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