"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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seanpersaud91

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Hey fellow DJs,
When meeting a woman first time (public setting) if she goes out of her way to help you , does that mean she's interested or just being just nice?
I ran into a woman as I got on the wrong floor. . Mind you I was on crutches as I had an injury with my leg. She was an employee for the gov't , but decided to help me find my way (I did not ask for her assistance). Not heavy flirting, but she went out of a way to come back down with me walked me to the main entrance where I had to take the another elevator. Before I had any reason, I told her farewell.

Now should've expressed my intent more boldly and attempt to n-close? Or was she just being nice? Perhaps she saw my in crutches and "felt bad"?

But in general, how do YOU guys differentiate between being nice and kind vs being interested?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's just being a good Samaritan.
 
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