Being ForeverAlone/Incel is the WORST thing to happen to a male

[latino158]

being FA/incel is horrible not because u are lonely and cant get girls. No thats actually pretty normal.

Being FA ruins your quality of life you start obsessing over girls and trying to analyze every micro detail about yourself and females. When you are out in public you cant enjoy the moment because ur constantly looking around if any girls are checking u out or making eye contact with u

You become obsessed with sex and the female gender. You become paranoid, obsessive, envy and jealous thoughts start taking over your rational

Going out is no longer about meeting new people or hanging out with your friends. No its about girls and how many you can hook up with or chat with

You can no longer enjoy public places such as the beach or mall or even going to class. It takes a toll on your life.

You cant even enjoy a normal vacation or holiday trip because u are constantly reminded that u dont have a girl and cant get sex

Being FA is the worst possible thing to happen to a male. And its not the lack of sex or gf that kills you, rather it kills any other aspect of life and becomes your obsession

Fuk being FA (srs)

i agree more with FA than incel. you can enjoy fapping to porn or your fleshlight, which comes very close to sex, but being alone is what kills you in the long term. my guess is, after a certain age you dont care anymore. seeing how cruel people are to incels you see their true nature.

Yes this most important having social circle of close friends.Yup your ****ed , why because to make friends you need friends already.People as they get older only care if you have social value, and most people only make real social circles and friends in highschool,work, or college.Most long-term social circles are formed in highschool or college.AKA it comes down to LMS looks,money,status.Guess what people will blame you and say your not trying,join a club or sports team that **** only works in highschool, and those people usually have friends outside of those clubs.

 

[Desdinova]

Being FA is the worst possible thing to happen to a male.

Someone on here years ago woke me up to this very subject. To loosely quote him, "There are worse things than dying old and alone, like dying young and on fire."

He's right. There are worse things that could happen to you.

I used to be of the "I don't want to die alone" crowd, but after dealing with lots of women and their 5hit, it actually looks like the better option. I work with the elderly and disabled, and I can't count how many women I've seen despise and mistreat their disabled husbands. Men on the other hand are more than willing to take care of their disabled wives.

So to solve your dilemma, get yourself a disabled woman

 

[guru1000]

Whatever you project your fears upon will become your new reality. You fear being alone and sexless, and you shall now receive your fate.

Funny thing about life, heh: Whatever you demand by conscious thought, your unconscious will follow, and you will forge your reality unconsciously!

1. Begin with what you want out of life
2. Focus on that thought
3. Believe in that thought
4. Take active steps in working toward that thought
5. Watch how people change, reciprocate, and mirror your thinking

You want to fvck (without paying), then begin by believing that women will fvck you. The rest is child's play.

 

[skinnyguy]

A bit of truth here. Incels obsess over women the most while alphas generally put a lot less thought into women. It's a vicious cycle that's hard to break.

 

[guru1000]

Yannick, you are correct to the extent of outer game. This gentleman has serious inner game issues. Both are equally significant. Believe it or not, even Guru gets blown out of sets when thinking is not optimized

 

[guru1000]

Just as any man who invests into the trap that looks are not important, do not invest into the trap that looks are everything. Any good-looking DJ with his fair share of experience will vouch that inner game is just as important as outer.

Looks will open the door easily. Inner game will keep it open and allow you to close the deal. The girls that eyeballed you this weekend were into your looks, but your inner game disallowed you from sealing the deal.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Tf FA/Incel? It's always some new weird ass terms in this community.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

being FA/incel is horrible not because u are lonely and cant get girls. No thats actually pretty normal.

Being FA ruins your quality of life you start obsessing over girls and trying to analyze every micro detail about yourself and females. When you are out in public you cant enjoy the moment because ur constantly looking around if any girls are checking u out or making eye contact with u

You become obsessed with sex and the female gender. You become paranoid, obsessive, envy and jealous thoughts start taking over your rational

Going out is no longer about meeting new people or hanging out with your friends. No its about girls and how many you can hook up with or chat with

You can no longer enjoy public places such as the beach or mall or even going to class. It takes a toll on your life.

You cant even enjoy a normal vacation or holiday trip because u are constantly reminded that u dont have a girl and cant get sex

Being FA is the worst possible thing to happen to a male. And its not the lack of sex or gf that kills you, rather it kills any other aspect of life and becomes your obsession

Fuk being FA (srs)

i agree more with FA than incel. you can enjoy fapping to porn or your fleshlight, which comes very close to sex, but being alone is what kills you in the long term. my guess is, after a certain age you dont care anymore. seeing how cruel people are to incels you see their true nature.

Yes this most important having social circle of close friends.Yup your ****ed , why because to make friends you need friends already.People as they get older only care if you have social value, and most people only make real social circles and friends in highschool,work, or college.Most long-term social circles are formed in highschool or college.AKA it comes down to LMS looks,money,status.Guess what people will blame you and say your not trying,join a club or sports team that **** only works in highschool, and those people usually have friends outside of those clubs.

I have no idea what incel means, but I disagree completely with pretty much everything you said. Being forever alone does not mean you are miserable and can't enjoy life.

I would say I have been pretty much the forever alone type most of my life and I can tell you for damn sure my life hasn't been some miserable existence you're making it out to be.

There really isn't anything constructive in your post, and didn't add much value to anything. -1

 

[thatfeel]

incel - involuntary celibate

it's a socially manufactured label someone with a degree / psych firm made up to give to inexperienced and jaded individuals so that there could be yet ANOTHER sub-population of people in society who could be stigmatized.

 

[Golden Arms]

FA is like Free Agent ?

 

[thatfeel]

Did you guys even read the thread title? It literally says forever alone.

 

[FairShake]

It is not the worst thing that can happen to a man. It does, however, FEEL the worst because it is long. Forever is a long time.

If sex is what you obsess over you will always be alone. You aren't focusing on connection. Real connection is what you're seeking, hence your still being "alone" while fvcking hookers.

There is a woman and connection for you. I know there is. She may not be ready for sex right away and she may not be the most sexy woman in the world but she's there for a connection. And that's better than a hooker any day.

Guess what people will blame you and say your not trying,join a club or sports team that **** only works in highschool, and those people usually have friends outside of those clubs.

Not true. Most people do not "hang out" with their high school friends. They hang out with work friends, people at the bar, on the golf course, cigar store, etc. You have to get out and put yourself out there. Be open to new people and be friendly. Be cool(ish) and somebody will spend time with you. If only not to be alone themselves!

 

[_sideways_]

Anti FA then is me wanting to be left to myself today and a handful of women came up and approached me. Either by asking me a question, standing right next to me, sitting next to me when clearly there wasnt enough room.

And i noticed whenever i want peace they just cant stop themselves from prying into my space. Its not even flattering at the moment cuz im not in that mood. I guess thats how some hbs feel, maybe?

But point is FA alone is funny, like my irration towards females when they try to get me to notice them and im not even in this realm right now.

None last long, and it goes away after you truly laugh it off. Truly get over yourself and let yourself enjoy everything you want. Good and bad.

P.s.
If we keep using incel and FA like theyre words or ideas that have existed forever and will continue, then we are making it a sub culture. Like somebody else said, some psych paper needed to be published and this was their choice.

 

[latino158]

is already a subculture lol

there is no stopping it now

 

[_sideways_]

Defeatist attitude. Like saying, im pudgy theres no stopping it now

 

[mangotot]

Its down to what you make of it. If you think its bad, it really is bad. For a lot of people, they'd feel not great about it especially since majority take as a given and the person in question is not in the same position.