"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Being Different

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I am Chinese and English is my second language. I moved to Ohama a few months ago, and im most surrounded by white people there. In my college, there are a lot of beautiful, and sexy white white chicks. However, i might not have a chance to get anyone of them as my girlfriend because im different.

Any suggestions help or methods from you DJs? What should i dont to increase my chance really successfully? Does David Deangelo methods or Pook's will help me out?

Thanks:)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did you move to Omaha? I live in a suburb of Omaha in SW Iowa. Everybody in my school is white except two or three people. And one of those guys is the most popular guy in our school, and he was homecoming king this year.

I recommend using your differences to make friends. The homcoming king is black and he makes fun of his race all the time. His favorite quote is, "Let my people go!" But basically just have confidence and be funny.
 

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Originally posted by flying10
I recommend using your differences to make friends. The homcoming king is black and he makes fun of his race all the time. His favorite quote is, "Let my people go!" But basically just have confidence and be funny.
Thats not what you want to do...Dont be a coon and make fun of your race to get in with white people, you look like a clown doing that sh1t...Ewwwww, gross...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why does that make me a racist?

What I wrote there are just my obeservations after 6+months here in Sydney. The majority in my classes are asians (engineering), those that have grown up here are more outgoing, social, fun etc. Those that are not, are the anti-social ones, they stay in their rooms 24/7 and when they go out, they always hang out with asians, almost no racial interactions.

Maybe it's different in the States.

That's usyd in a nutshell.

I like asian food, i have lunch at this asian place down the street everyday. The asian food that my roommates make smells like ****. That's all.
 
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