Being Different From the Norm

[Dead End Kid]

Being Different actracts girls more than you think, they love a guy who is different from the norm and not being the same old tired guy like the rest, such as:

Dressing differently

Appreciating other kinds of music and films

Drinking and eating different things from other cultures

Reading--shows you are educated

Avoiding clubs or acting like your not enjoying yourself at a club
often works, it lets her know that you are tired of that scene.

As far as a car goes, vintage always catches her attention and the
trademark pickup truck.

Loving your work.

And not whinning and talking about your failures and past is a plus. Women love strong men and mysterious ones at that..

 

[Julian]

Being different just to be different is fuccing corny.

 

[Life-Trainee]

By not conforming you're conforming with other non-conformists

 

[jakethasnake]

One thing I've noticed - it is MUCH more effective and also self-affirming to be different in your PERSONALITY/PHILOSOPHY/OUTLOOK than in your looks. I've met so many people who dress outrageous, but are no different from Mr. Boring Joe Schmoe down the street.


Also it's interesting to note that those 'different' aka 'alternative' people all congregate together and CREATE THEIR OWN HOMOGENOUS, poseur/wannabe cliques IN TURN. You will have popular alternatives, and then the reject alternatives.


Humans are designed to be social animals and no matter what social context we are put in, we will all fall back in line, according to our alpah/beta/omega status. So simply looking different is not the answer - being a 'normal' boring person who dresses funky is no different from being a 'normal' boring person who dreses regularly. IT ALL ABOUT THE PERSON INSIDE - you must shine from inside to be truly different.

 

[Mack Bishop]

so true thats why the "unique" goth women only **** with the "unique" goth "men"