"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being desperate

skinnyguy

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For so many years, I was desperate....and I realize now how much it showed.

I used to stare at beautiful women I'd see at the coffee shop or a restaurant....and of course they would never stare back.

Now, I have realized that I'm not completely cured of this desperation until I can have a REALLY hot girl talk to me and not give a **** about her

I might get a few numbers here and there, but if I'm still desperate, I'm losing and it will only end badly.

I can only win if I am impervious to hot women. Until then, I'm screwed
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Chamber36

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Get hotter yourself.

Work out, wear nice clothes, groom yourself.

Also learn that hot girls are the same as non-hot girls, except that they might have more self-esteem. There's nothing bad about a girl being hot. I prefer them.
 

Solomon

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I can relate to this in a sense since I deal with a scarcity mindset a lot. And when something is scarce i.e. Women. You do whatever to retain or obtain it. However women aren't scarce. They are abundant. You have to improve yourself first having a scarcity mindset of desperation is because of low self-esteem, lack of value and self-respect. Get in the root of that problem and once you do you will be the stud that you know yourself to be

Read this brah, it will help you
 
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Being desperate is a good thing. The mentality that you have to have sex at all cost should be in the DJ Bible. Everyone should have that drive to succeed. When I meet with a girl now, I give off this vibe that I desperately need to have sex. If they sense it enough, they'll oblige. Just don't bang fatties or fuglies.

Join me on my quest to AFC mastery. You can post reports in there if you'd like:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=207849

Desperation should be the first word in your dictionary. Look at your life right now, it absolutely sucks. You're single and horny, you need to have sex.
 
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