“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Being confident and insecure at the same time?

HandyAndy

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Im a confident person but im not comfortable in my own skin depending on the situation.

so...Is it possible to be confident and insecure at the same time?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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connor32

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yep. our confidence levels fluctuate depending on the situation. true confidence is when your totally at peace with yourself and you can just let go.
 

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HandyAndy said:
Is it possible to be confident and insecure at the same time?
No. Having no insecurities is a prerequisite of confidence. However, you can ACT confident while being insecure, which is what a lot of guys do. With experience you will be able to turn the acting into reality and rid yourself of your insecurities if you are determined enough. :up:
 
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