Basically I don't move for no one. This dude was being a ***** and automatically Thinking I should move for him. Later he came up to me and asked if there was a problem. Should I have just ignored him and treated him like the insignifacant POS that he is?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Being challenged for dominance
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I think your attitude is typical of guys in their late teens and early 20s. It certainly was for me. If you have any sense you will eventually grow out of it. The best of us do.
So my advice is grow out of it a little earlier than the rest of us. You will grow out of it eventually anyway, so bowing down to the inevitable will probably save you the time and headaches.
So my advice is grow out of it a little earlier than the rest of us. You will grow out of it eventually anyway, so bowing down to the inevitable will probably save you the time and headaches.
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You yield half of the space necessary for both to pass. Anything else and you deserve to get your face crushed, you're not being alpha you're being petty. There are more important things you should be concerned with then allowing someone to pass you in a cramped place.... Bossman
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Moved to the high school forum?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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um, there isn't a whole lot of detail in this.
Were you passing some guy on the street and then he turned followed and asked if there was a problem?
Were you passing some guy on the street and then he turned followed and asked if there was a problem?
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It doesn't matter dude, get over yourself. Assault and battery costs money to legally defend and might land you in jail or worse. Learn to balance between "can" and "should" it's what makes the difference between you and a monkey. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should do it. If you are going to rail someone make sure you are in the right.
http://www.kirotv.com/news/news/crime-law/puyallup-man-punched-coma-after-comment-about-car-/nNPq3/
That's $75,000 bail there homie... is that little bit of hallway space worth so much to you? I know i'd rather spend the money on a friggin 2012 Mercedes.
Learn to pick your fights...
One of my toughest friends got shot after trying some dude at a strip club. They followed him home and shot him on the way. His fighting skills didn't stop the bullet unfortunately. He didn't even get out of his car, they found him dead behind the wheel.
http://www.kirotv.com/news/news/crime-law/puyallup-man-punched-coma-after-comment-about-car-/nNPq3/
That's $75,000 bail there homie... is that little bit of hallway space worth so much to you? I know i'd rather spend the money on a friggin 2012 Mercedes.
Learn to pick your fights...
One of my toughest friends got shot after trying some dude at a strip club. They followed him home and shot him on the way. His fighting skills didn't stop the bullet unfortunately. He didn't even get out of his car, they found him dead behind the wheel.
Iceberg
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Being challenged for the dominance of what? The hallway to the bathroom in McDonald's? Come on...
Sorry to be rude, but this is kid stuff. And anyone who says "I don't move for no one" just sounds like they're trying to prove something. If you're dominant, then be dominant.
So why are you writing about him then?Bossman90 said:
Sorry to be rude, but this is kid stuff. And anyone who says "I don't move for no one" just sounds like they're trying to prove something. If you're dominant, then be dominant.
Wow OP way to be so "Alpha" by not moving out of the way for someone.
I think a lot of guys here miss the whole point of "dominance"; it's not a matter of being the toughest tough guy in the room. OP, there's a good chance you could probably beat me in a fist fight, congratulations, but it doesn't make you a man or a DJ or alpha or whatever you strive to be. It makes you a meathead who has to rely "I can beat you up" for a backbone.
Be above stupid stuff like that, it's common courtesy. Yep the guy's a d!ck, so what? To dominate is to maintain complete control of the situation, getting pulled into a fight cause some other guy is an a$$ isn't control, it means I can do something petty, or say something stupid and immediately predict how you're going to react.
Be ready to fight for the things you value which can be taken from you or those you love; fighting some AFC beta chump who's looking for a fight cause he has something to prove is a waste of time and does not pay off. Don't be that guy.
I think a lot of guys here miss the whole point of "dominance"; it's not a matter of being the toughest tough guy in the room. OP, there's a good chance you could probably beat me in a fist fight, congratulations, but it doesn't make you a man or a DJ or alpha or whatever you strive to be. It makes you a meathead who has to rely "I can beat you up" for a backbone.
Be above stupid stuff like that, it's common courtesy. Yep the guy's a d!ck, so what? To dominate is to maintain complete control of the situation, getting pulled into a fight cause some other guy is an a$$ isn't control, it means I can do something petty, or say something stupid and immediately predict how you're going to react.
Be ready to fight for the things you value which can be taken from you or those you love; fighting some AFC beta chump who's looking for a fight cause he has something to prove is a waste of time and does not pay off. Don't be that guy.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.