Basically I don't move for no one. This dude was being a ***** and automatically Thinking I should move for him. Later he came up to me and asked if there was a problem. Should I have just ignored him and treated him like the insignifacant POS that he is?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Being challenged for dominance
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I think your attitude is typical of guys in their late teens and early 20s. It certainly was for me. If you have any sense you will eventually grow out of it. The best of us do.
So my advice is grow out of it a little earlier than the rest of us. You will grow out of it eventually anyway, so bowing down to the inevitable will probably save you the time and headaches.
So my advice is grow out of it a little earlier than the rest of us. You will grow out of it eventually anyway, so bowing down to the inevitable will probably save you the time and headaches.
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You yield half of the space necessary for both to pass. Anything else and you deserve to get your face crushed, you're not being alpha you're being petty. There are more important things you should be concerned with then allowing someone to pass you in a cramped place.... Bossman
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Moved to the high school forum?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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um, there isn't a whole lot of detail in this.
Were you passing some guy on the street and then he turned followed and asked if there was a problem?
Were you passing some guy on the street and then he turned followed and asked if there was a problem?
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It doesn't matter dude, get over yourself. Assault and battery costs money to legally defend and might land you in jail or worse. Learn to balance between "can" and "should" it's what makes the difference between you and a monkey. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should do it. If you are going to rail someone make sure you are in the right.
http://www.kirotv.com/news/news/crime-law/puyallup-man-punched-coma-after-comment-about-car-/nNPq3/
That's $75,000 bail there homie... is that little bit of hallway space worth so much to you? I know i'd rather spend the money on a friggin 2012 Mercedes.
Learn to pick your fights...
One of my toughest friends got shot after trying some dude at a strip club. They followed him home and shot him on the way. His fighting skills didn't stop the bullet unfortunately. He didn't even get out of his car, they found him dead behind the wheel.
http://www.kirotv.com/news/news/crime-law/puyallup-man-punched-coma-after-comment-about-car-/nNPq3/
That's $75,000 bail there homie... is that little bit of hallway space worth so much to you? I know i'd rather spend the money on a friggin 2012 Mercedes.
Learn to pick your fights...
One of my toughest friends got shot after trying some dude at a strip club. They followed him home and shot him on the way. His fighting skills didn't stop the bullet unfortunately. He didn't even get out of his car, they found him dead behind the wheel.
Iceberg
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Being challenged for the dominance of what? The hallway to the bathroom in McDonald's? Come on...
Sorry to be rude, but this is kid stuff. And anyone who says "I don't move for no one" just sounds like they're trying to prove something. If you're dominant, then be dominant.
So why are you writing about him then?Bossman90 said:
Sorry to be rude, but this is kid stuff. And anyone who says "I don't move for no one" just sounds like they're trying to prove something. If you're dominant, then be dominant.
Wow OP way to be so "Alpha" by not moving out of the way for someone.
I think a lot of guys here miss the whole point of "dominance"; it's not a matter of being the toughest tough guy in the room. OP, there's a good chance you could probably beat me in a fist fight, congratulations, but it doesn't make you a man or a DJ or alpha or whatever you strive to be. It makes you a meathead who has to rely "I can beat you up" for a backbone.
Be above stupid stuff like that, it's common courtesy. Yep the guy's a d!ck, so what? To dominate is to maintain complete control of the situation, getting pulled into a fight cause some other guy is an a$$ isn't control, it means I can do something petty, or say something stupid and immediately predict how you're going to react.
Be ready to fight for the things you value which can be taken from you or those you love; fighting some AFC beta chump who's looking for a fight cause he has something to prove is a waste of time and does not pay off. Don't be that guy.
I think a lot of guys here miss the whole point of "dominance"; it's not a matter of being the toughest tough guy in the room. OP, there's a good chance you could probably beat me in a fist fight, congratulations, but it doesn't make you a man or a DJ or alpha or whatever you strive to be. It makes you a meathead who has to rely "I can beat you up" for a backbone.
Be above stupid stuff like that, it's common courtesy. Yep the guy's a d!ck, so what? To dominate is to maintain complete control of the situation, getting pulled into a fight cause some other guy is an a$$ isn't control, it means I can do something petty, or say something stupid and immediately predict how you're going to react.
Be ready to fight for the things you value which can be taken from you or those you love; fighting some AFC beta chump who's looking for a fight cause he has something to prove is a waste of time and does not pay off. Don't be that guy.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.