"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Being called "wierd"
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
*edit* but, if you think you are weird, then there is a problem. Not with your weirdness, mind you, but with your self-esteem.
Cause, the weirdest thing you can do is take a **** and piss, and every single person in the world does that
mid_au
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totally agree with u mate..
besides if your getting dates u cant be that weird
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Whatever you do don't ask her 'What do you mean I'm wierd, in what way?' INSECURE.
However feedback may be good, even from a woman.
'Yeah I know what you mean, mysterious, enigmatic and Godlike, that's what you mean isn't it? ' you must smile at this point or you are a tosser as well as weird.
Then she may well say, 'No I mean you dress like a Dork....
The answer is less important than the way you react to it.
TedJustAdmitIt
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I get called wierd by pretty much every woman who gets to know me and interesting by nearly every bloke who gets to know me.
It's a compliment,usually people will call you wierd when you're different or stand out and they can't find the right word to describe how they see you.
I never ask why but reply with something like:
"Yes,yes I am" then continue with what I was saying...
...or I look at my watch and say "It's taken you half an hour to work THAT out?....do try and keep up(with a grin)"...
...or "Yup...wierder than you'll ever know(wink)!"
On the odd occasion that someone calls me wierd and they obviously don't mean it as a compliment I turn the sarcastic knob right upto 11 and say "You know.....you're the first person that's EVER said that to me" and give em a blank look...
...or (again with heavy sarcasm) "You're the first person who's said that to me..............in the last 10 mins".
It all depends how good your self esteem is.....I know that I'm reeeaaalllyyy off the wall and I'm proud of it,it's something I embrace and I wouldn't swap places with anyone else or try to be "normal" for anyone.
It's good to stand out.
Embrace your wierdness you freak