"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Being called 'sir'

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It's funny you'd be addressed as "Sir" considering your attitude makes you sound like a child.
 

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mackdaddy27 said:
went to get a mcdonalds sandwich and the lady at the window said , here you go , sir
my jaw dropped and just stared at her back as if to say , come back ehre ,what the fcck did you say
and then I was about to do a favre move from Supertrooper and jump trhough the windows to kick that persons ass ...if it was a joke

went to talk to a hb 6.5 as she was walking out, but as soon as opened with where is this store, she said " no sir, its not on this floor" shes not even an employee..

wtf ? should I start fcck buying gray hairs for men coverup and start talking my doctor about viagra..

I am only 27 , all my life I have never been called sir. I swear to good i m going to lay as many as i can before I turn 28
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LOL... you are old now and it shows... but dont worry young hos love old dudes just not in public... and not for free...LOL
 
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I feel the same way and im only 21. When theres someone helping me and theyre a year younger, calling me sir isnt necessary in such an informal situation.
 
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This is one of the small things that is wrong with this world. People have forgotten about respect and manners. If people were more respectful of their elders, you would understand the history & meaning behind being called Sir. Its meant as a compliment and a sign of respect, thats why multi million dollar corporations who's goal is to make as much money as possible train their employees to do so.

A lesson from the money hungry corporations could be learned here.
 
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MacAvoy said:
Question for you Beavis.

Do you find taking such a negative view helps your situation? I'm not disagreeing with what you say but I don't see the point in looking for a negative in every situation.
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Interesting accusation coming from the guy who asked why we need morals.
That seems quite cynical to me.
Besides, lighten up. There are times when it's used respectfully, but more often then not, it's just as I described. I find it amusing when I hear guys ripping each other's heads off, and calling each other Sir. See? Humor.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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mackdaddy27 said:
went to get a mcdonalds sandwich and the lady at the window said , here you go , sir
my jaw dropped and just stared at her back as if to say , come back ehre ,what the fcck did you say
and then I was about to do a favre move from Supertrooper and jump trhough the windows to kick that persons ass ...if it was a joke

went to talk to a hb 6.5 as she was walking out, but as soon as opened with where is this store, she said " no sir, its not on this floor" shes not even an employee..

wtf ? should I start fcck buying gray hairs for men coverup and start talking my doctor about viagra..

I am only 27 , all my life I have never been called sir. I swear to good i m going to lay as many as i can before I turn 28
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Maybe it had nothing to do with you? Perhaps they refer to all non-teenage men as "sir" when doing their jobs.

Plus, what's so bad about being called "sir"? It's a respect thing, isn't it?
 
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PrinceBeavis said:
Interesting accusation coming from the guy who asked why we need morals.
That seems quite cynical to me..
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Thats entirely the point of my thread. I don't need morals to be a good person or to have a positive outlook on life. I don't see anything cynical about it.

I just get tired of the negativity in here sometimes and I was just trying to promote a more positive agenda.
 
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At McD's, the 'sir' means nothing; don't worry about it.

However, if you are hitting on a girl or she thinks you are, and she calls you 'sir,' that means 'get away from me, you creepy old loser.' I have had a very attractive young employee at Home Depot call me sir - she's just used to every guy hitting on her. I wasn't even trying to, mostly just laughing at her for climbing a ladder in front of me and sticking her ass right in my face. But she thought I was, thus the 'sir.' It's a polite way of saying "you have no chance, buddy."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was 1st called "Sir" when I was walking around the streets of Orlando one day when I was 18. I wasn't pissed off, just shocked. She asked for directions and I told her "I'm not sure, I'm not from around here." As if the big block letter George Mason shirt didn't speak volumes on that.
 
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