Being called gay, should I be offended?

[Analytic]

So I hit up the club tonight and probably had too much to drink and was dancing the night away, I think I was more interested in dancing then hunting for girls. I did dance with a couple girls and what not.

There was this 2 girls that was dancing, I wasn't trying to approuch them or anything... I was just dancing close to them, they turn around and kinda give each other a look and then asked me if am gay. I asked her why she thinks that but I could'n hear crap so I left, so now am a lil confuse as to why she would call me that. I had a lot of different rejection in the past but never being called Gay before. I wasnt dancing like a homo throwing my arms around haha if that's what you're thinking... then again... maybe.. am too drunk to know. Anyways, it was an interesting night.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Hors are deviants and naturally, or rather unnaturally, think others, in the same environment, are the same as them!!

 

[Mr. Wolf]

I was just dancing close to them, they turn around and kinda give each other a look and then asked me if am gay.

Never answer that question directly.. Tell them, hahaha, no... Turn around and dance with other chicks..

Or, hahaha, get beautiful and suck my d1ck..




She's asking are you gay.. It's really, you dont' see I'm beautiful, what's wrong with you.. Anything but shooting her down either says something is wrong with you or you're gay.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

One of your friends taped a sign to your back that said, "Will suck d&ck for 5 dollars".

 

[tony-montana]

you're an a$$hole casanova. go sign up at some circus forum if all you gonna do is joke around.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

you're an a$$hole casanova. go sign up at some circus forum if all you gonna do is joke around.

And I was just about to go into your thread to help you with that engaged chick, but now I think I won't.

 

[tony-montana]

oh, i'm going to cry now.

 

[skirtChaser]

did you ever stop and think maybe she wanted to have sex with you?, so, she was asking if you liked snatch or pecker, big deal, you could of been taking those two home instead you came home and went on a forum, (talk about gay), answer is no, I wouldn't be offended, she was interested and by your reaction she figured you were gay and she exposed you.
bigger problem numb nut, you got major sensitivity problems, I thought the comment about the sign about sucking d!ck was funny, yet you acted the same exact way you acted to the girls, lighten up on people and be more confident or "c um out of the closet". basically you told those women two things: I am gay, I'm very unsure of myself.

 

[comic_relief]

womaneeze
"Are you gay?"

-means-

"Why won't you go out with me or anyone? Is there something wrong with me?"

I have had this happen before to me too. Take it as a compliment and go from there.

comic_relief

 

[DJDamage]

Women LOVE and I mean LOVE to try and break down a guy's confidence when he looks to be so sure of himself. Why do they do it? because its another sh1t test to throw out there to see if you are worthy and whether or not you are who you say and think you are. The fact that it bothers you, just showed that their sh1t test worked and you are not really as confident on the inside as you would like people to believe.

Don't be offended, those broads were dumb, its not something you should say to a guy. If you asked them if they were "hors" they would be cursing your ass all night long.

 

[ducaro]

When the damage is already done by some chick by having asked you you if yer gay... just say.. 'gezaloo, I never was, but you just turned me into one' (provided you wanna snub the crap outta her and lose any chances)

Or

If you wanna try and get lucky say - 'I turned gay because of the sad chicks, but having met you, I'd like to change again'

or

if you just wanna get back at them randomly say 'why, is this a gay club? lets get outta here'

 

[KontrollerX]

If a chick asks that you can say...

1. Not until this moment.

Or

2. No, I like beautiful women. If you see any let me know.

Or

3. If she asks it playfully though laugh and look her over up and down and say "If I was I'm certainly not now" which should get a big laugh out of her and allow you to transition things to wherever you want it to go from there.

 

[comic_relief]

whoops my favorite answer is: "Yeah, I am, but do you want to see if you could change it."

comic_relief

 

[Mr Plow]

womaneeze
"Are you gay?"

-means-

"Why won't you go out with me or anyone? Is there something wrong with me?"

I have had this happen before to me too. Take it as a compliment and go from there.

comic_relief

Took the words from my mouth

 

[DonRaul]

If women calls me gay: "Yeah I am gay, lets all get naked together "

If a man calls me gay: "Why do you ask? you trying to recruit? "

 

[Nexus Polaris]

womaneeze
"Are you gay?"

-means-

"Why won't you go out with me or anyone? Is there something wrong with me?"

I have had this happen before to me too. Take it as a compliment and go from there.

comic_relief

Very true. A friend of mine has had a huge thing for this guy for awhile who has shown her no interest. She didn't call him gay, but she recently accused him of being asexual. He shrugged it off, and she got so mad she stormed off.

 

[Moofahsa]

If a chick asks that you can say...

2. No, I like beautiful women. If you see any let me know.

Thats awesome

 

[Climax]

think of it as her saying "hey u've been dancing here next to me for HOW LONG NOW??? Why havnt u made any moves? Now because u made ME make the 1st move i'm gonna disguise it so well you will never think i was making a move on you! PLEASE dance with me now??? *flatter eyelashes* "

I hope you at LEAST got her number?

 

[Analytic]

think of it as her saying "hey u've been dancing here next to me for HOW LONG NOW??? Why havnt u made any moves? Now because u made ME make the 1st move i'm gonna disguise it so well you will never think i was making a move on you! PLEASE dance with me now??? *flatter eyelashes* "

I hope you at LEAST got her number?

Nah, she was saying something but I couldn't hear than just roll my eyes and left. I really need to stop masturbating.

I think you're right about it, am going out again tonight and won't drink at all. Getting drunk really hindered your game since you're not seeing who's giving you eye contact.

 

[KontrollerX]

Another way you can make a chick like this feel like the total assh0le she is, is to just stop, stare and look at her and bust out laughing non stop.

Remember to look her over up and down as you're laughing like she's one big joke.

Because she is lol.