You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WTF? Yes, its a secret woman language thing. Being called different is their new way of saying they want to fvck. What the hell is the matter with you, asking these questions? Retarded.crossboss said:If I am called different what does that mean? Should I ask her out? Does that mean she wants to have sex with me?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lets face the facts here, Elvis was fvcking weird, so was John Lennon, what about Gene Simmons from Kiss, or, Michael Jackson, they were unique, like creatures from another planet, hot babes never held it against them though, it is great to be that different, just ask, Snoop Dogg and Tommy Lee.Plec07 said:That alone means jack sh*t.
She could mean: "Your so unique. I have never met a guy as good as you. You really understand me. I love you".
Or she could mean: "Your so ****ing weird it's like your from a different planet, but I don't want to hurt your feelings so I'll just say your different."