"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

being called a pretty boy

Thread starter frivolousz21
Start date Nov 27, 2007

MikeYikes122

Master Don Juan

Dec 2, 2007

Do you dress really nice or do you have a reputation among these guys for being well-groomed? My friends call me pretty boy a lot to mess with me, and I know for certain it's because they think I dress well and I take a long time to get ready.

I think that it has less to do with actual looks and more with how you upkeep yourself.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.