"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Being Called a Flirt...

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The other day my gf had this long conversation with me..basically, she said i was a hugeee flirt..i never thought i was tho...some ppl tel me i am others dont..by my GF certainly thinks so...

she said.."you are a flirt. Well, not really. But you joke around with everyone and are friends with everyone, girl or guy. Some girls may think you are flirting with them and start to gain interest in you and i dont like that."

i was like...theres no way i am a flirt i just like to socialize with everyone..and i talk to and joke around with girls the same way i do with guys..

she said..''You're a flirt. end of story''

Wtf, do i stop takin to girls because i 'make jokes' with a girl?
i dont get it..im not stoppin i just wanna kno why she said this out of the blue and the look in her eyes looked like she felt bad..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She saw that other girls are getting attracted to you and she fears losing her power over you and you losing attraction for her. It's one of their usual tricks to get their power back by making their man feel guilty about being his natural self. "I'm a victim" example #2137.
 
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A test is a test. Do not justify yourself. The message to give is "do you really want to be with the guy no other girl is interested in". I wouldn't use those words, but reframe with "You love knowing that you're with the guy that is turning all the girls on".
 
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Dude, like the first reply stated, she knows your wanted by alot of women, and your a great catch (you are man ;)) she's losing power. Dude, you have the power now here. She cant leave you, 'cos first she finds you attractive, and 'cos she knows you wouldn't back glance and you'd find some other heavenly chick ;)

Peace man
Ben ;)
 
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SilverSonnet said:
Dude, like the first reply stated, she knows your wanted by alot of women, and your a great catch (you are man ;)) she's losing power. Dude, you have the power now here. She cant leave you, 'cos first she finds you attractive, and 'cos she knows you wouldn't back glance and you'd find some other heavenly chick ;)

Peace man
Ben ;)
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All true. This is what higher value feels like. Enjoy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I got this with one of my ex's before when we were going out. I think its a matter of perception and self confidence.

Your gf doesnt seem to have alot of self confidence.

That doesnt mean you should hop under the thumb
 
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