"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So... I asked this girl out and she said yes. And she pretty much told me that she likes me (couldn't have made it more obvious). She also told me that she's bi. But I'm just not ready to tell her. I feel bad, but I'm afraid it'll turn into a conversation about my sexual history, and I'm obviously not ready for that yet.

So, when's the right time to tell her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Depends on what kind of relationship you want to pursue with her. You dnt have to tell her you are bi just yet, but obviously when things start getting serious, you may want to let her no then.

I am guessing its not so much the telling her bit you are worried about, its more the past relationships you dont want to discuss. I think its fair to tell her and say I am not in a position to talk about the past yet, but when i am, I will tell you. That wouldnt upset me, i'd appreciate the honesty.
 
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If it gets to that point tell her it's none of her business. Get an STD test and when it comes back clean tell her that the important thing is that you two are together now.
 
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