"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So... I asked this girl out and she said yes. And she pretty much told me that she likes me (couldn't have made it more obvious). She also told me that she's bi. But I'm just not ready to tell her. I feel bad, but I'm afraid it'll turn into a conversation about my sexual history, and I'm obviously not ready for that yet.

So, when's the right time to tell her?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Depends on what kind of relationship you want to pursue with her. You dnt have to tell her you are bi just yet, but obviously when things start getting serious, you may want to let her no then.

I am guessing its not so much the telling her bit you are worried about, its more the past relationships you dont want to discuss. I think its fair to tell her and say I am not in a position to talk about the past yet, but when i am, I will tell you. That wouldnt upset me, i'd appreciate the honesty.
 
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If it gets to that point tell her it's none of her business. Get an STD test and when it comes back clean tell her that the important thing is that you two are together now.
 
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