"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Being banned for picking up women

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Wondering if any of you have ever been banned for picking up women in hot spot locales.

IE: Shopping malls, clubs, resorts, casinos, social media apps, bars, residential neighborhoods, high schools, public parks, block parties, family reunions, houses of worship, dorms, libraries etc.

How did you handle authorities attempts to ****block?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you get banned from "picking up women" at a public place you have been watching too many pickup videos.

Visit a popular PUA forum and you will see "I got punched in the face because I was using Xinstructors Jack@zz program." Or "I am banned from the mall for being a creep."

I have done public pickups before but here is the thing... ALL of them were BEFORE I learned any PUA shyt.

In public things need to be natural and non pressure, mostly a normal interaction let attraction do the rest.

Yes you can go out to the mall but don't go there to pick up girls, that is for F@GS with no life. Go shopping and see what happens when you are friendly.

Run game all you want in a bar, no one gives a shyt there.
 

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is there a restraining order against you?

if not, give no fukks.
 

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With no disrespect to some posters I like who do this....

Salsa dancing classes must be literally 99% horny dudes from PUA schools.

I cannot pick up women publicly without drink. When I've actually rarely got girls numbers, I've seen them afew times. My ex wife worked in a shop I used to visit. It took about 4 months of daily visits for useless things until I actually asked her out and I walked out heart beating, with a huge boner.

Just 4 months of daily visits and I number closed. You guys have much to learn from me.

Yeah and I met a 18 year old when I was 29 at the mall. I would pick her up after highschool and have wild craxy sex at my house.

People meet in public during the day and end up having realationships, that is a normal thing.

That chick I made sure I had pics and videos, still the crazyiest sex I have ever had in my life, all that was before I knew about manosphere. and I met her during the day at the mall, 18 year old.

It's PUA that fvvcked it all up by labeling it "Daygame."

and giving you "tactics" yeah inner game is good blah blah but PUA breeds wierdos that gets people banned from public.
 

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If you're a real DJ, girls will be hitting on YOU. Those pervs!!!:p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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With no disrespect to some posters I like who do this....

Salsa dancing classes must be literally 99% horny dudes from PUA schools.
I've often wondered about the effect of True Forced Loneliness men trying to gain an edge by doing stuff that women supposed like like salsa dancing.
 

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I've often wondered about the effect of True Forced Loneliness men trying to gain an edge by doing stuff that women supposed like like salsa dancing.
It's actually masculine. The man leads and once you get half way good will drench you in positive attention from the ladies. That makes us more attractive. Plus it's fun and healthy.
 

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I think the thing about dance classes is a better type of chick will be there. At least she's trying to learn something. If that really is your motivation I suggest yoga classes are a better shot. Girlfriend has membership at 2 Studios and has dragged me along a few times I've never seen more than 3 guys including me in the entire squad of 20 to 30. And you can learn a lot watching the girls do the before class politics with each other
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think the thing about dance classes is a better type of chick will be there. At least she's trying to learn something. If that really is your motivation I suggest yoga classes are a better shot. Girlfriend has membership at 2 Studios and has dragged me along a few times I've never seen more than 3 guys including me in the entire squad of 20 to 30. And you can learn a lot watching the girls do the before class politics with each other
Yep
 
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