"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being Amoged by Two

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giovannikast

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Hi
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I wanted to talk about a situation I had in a disco two weeks ago. I danced with a HB 8 that I liked the first time I saw her entering to the disco. She was in a group, two men and two women, anyway, I tried to isolate her from the group and the men noticed this and they were tryng to amoged me puting names and being some rude. Well I tried to do my best being cool, but I didnt have any strategie then and I had to look for another girl.
Well, I would like to hear your opinions guys.
Giovanni

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you dont amog stranger groups usually . try approaching the group and making friends with the obstacles, guys first and ignore the target. then when you try to isolate the target the group will feel comfortable about it. its mysterys group theory.
 
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Good Point

Thanks, Dirtyvibe, but what should I do when I ****ed from the beginning and her friends are being rude with me, and being disrespectful with me, I would like to read some other opinion, guys.
Giovanni

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giovannikast said:
Thanks, Dirtyvibe, but what should I do when I ****ed from the beginning and her friends are being rude with me, and being disrespectful with me
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This should never, ever happen.

giovannikast said:
I would like to read some other opinion, guys.
Giovanni

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Always befriend the obstacles before isolating the target.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WTF.. wouldn't the whole friends thing end once you try to take the girl the guy's were with?

I don't get it.. so your friendly to them first and then they automatically don't care if you take some girl they probally wished they could take? Huh?
 
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