I have been seeing this girl for a few months. Lots of mixed messages, yet a fun time and wild sex when we did get together. I am a bit more interested in another girl and was getting tired of the nonsense with the no-replies, short answers, date declines without offering another day. You all know the drill. Anyway, I decided to cut her loose and started pecking away at a message that wouldn't burn the bridge, but just close it until further notice. After all, you never know when a dry spell might come along. I didn't get a chance to finish my thoughts and was going to do so later that day. Low and behold, before I could send mine, she sends me a dump text with the typical content.
I replied and started off saying that I was about to finish off and send something similar, agreed that it was for the best and noted that the contents of what I was writing earlier was below. The last line of my previously written text was: " I'm thinking that I might not be the guy for you" followed by: "That's as far as I got and I wish you well with everything as well". It was pretty short overall without any reasons listed.
As expected, no reply. We follow each other on instagram and she is a serial poster of selfies and so on, with one to three posts a day and a rare missed day. From the day that I replied with my agreeable dump text, there have been five posts total in the last thirty days. No selfies, just a couple motivational word things, a local sports team thing and one pic from a concert. I have continued to post as normal, a few here and there and never any selfies.
I wonder if I shook her tree. Honestly, not that I really care, but I think that I may have over pursued, lost my frame and gave her the upper hand, putting me in a semi-orbit situation. Being that she is hot and pretty cool to hang with, the last thing that I think that she expected was me to just walk away with a smile.
I'm curious if anyone seen this sort of reaction or am I reading into this too much? Maybe behind all the smoke, the bridge is still standing?
I replied and started off saying that I was about to finish off and send something similar, agreed that it was for the best and noted that the contents of what I was writing earlier was below. The last line of my previously written text was: " I'm thinking that I might not be the guy for you" followed by: "That's as far as I got and I wish you well with everything as well". It was pretty short overall without any reasons listed.
As expected, no reply. We follow each other on instagram and she is a serial poster of selfies and so on, with one to three posts a day and a rare missed day. From the day that I replied with my agreeable dump text, there have been five posts total in the last thirty days. No selfies, just a couple motivational word things, a local sports team thing and one pic from a concert. I have continued to post as normal, a few here and there and never any selfies.
I wonder if I shook her tree. Honestly, not that I really care, but I think that I may have over pursued, lost my frame and gave her the upper hand, putting me in a semi-orbit situation. Being that she is hot and pretty cool to hang with, the last thing that I think that she expected was me to just walk away with a smile.
I'm curious if anyone seen this sort of reaction or am I reading into this too much? Maybe behind all the smoke, the bridge is still standing?