"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have looked for this but have not found it anywhere on this site.

Do (most) girls like it when you are aggressive while dancing with them at a club, I mean like, grinding, and holding, things like that. So far, to me anyways it seems like they dont like it when you are not aggressive (aggressive might not be the right word for it, but you get the idea) like if you just kind of dance behind them and let them grind into you, what should I be doing while she is doing this?:confused:
 

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Never do things in public that is not meant for public consumption! Grinding is not dancing!! Save the grinding and gyrating motions for the bedroom! Let the hor know this and ask her to leave with you now to go to your place. If she says "no" then she is teasing you and the other chumps who are so happy to be manipulated for her entertainment!

Men don't like to be teased - we want action from a woman and not penis teasing. What are you getting from this activity besides frustration? During grinding, she is delighting over the fact that she has control over you, because your desire and lust for her has given her the power that you naturally have as a man!
 
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depends on the club and people.

grinding is something ull get a feel for when it is necessary, alot of teh time u end up looking like a sleazebag if u go around grinding every female. its all about understanding when u gotta do it and if its gonna be reciprocated. as far as i know, u learn.
 
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Never do things in public that is not meant for public consumption! Grinding is not dancing!! Save the grinding and gyrating motions for the bedroom! Let the hor know this and ask her to leave with you now to go to your place. If she says "no" then she is teasing you and the other chumps who are so happy to be manipulated for her entertainment!
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Maybe this changes from place to place, but aroudn where i live, this is the only way people dance. It's pretty much standard that u will see people grinding, typically the girl with her back to you bent over.
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Never do things in public that is not meant for public consumption! Grinding is not dancing!! Save the grinding and gyrating motions for the bedroom! Let the hor know this and ask her to leave with you now to go to your place. If she says "no" then she is teasing you and the other chumps who are so happy to be manipulated for her entertainment!

Men don't like to be teased - we want action from a woman and not penis teasing. What are you getting from this activity besides frustration? During grinding, she is delighting over the fact that she has control over you, because your desire and lust for her has given her the power that you naturally have as a man!
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PRL - WHat the $hit are you talking about??? Your age is biasing you on this one...Being a 23 yr.old male, I may dance a little bit with distance, but its just prepping the time I'll grab her and get some grind on...The more you both get into it, the more you can massage her sides and back (I've checked for style of underwear from time to time, one time learning there was none on her...hot)

Im generally that guy hooking up with the chick in the club...I should preface that I'm a good dancer (listen to techno and learn to rave, dancing to anything else is slow and easy)

ONS chicks are the ones getting all up on you in the club...get them wet and ready in the club, then whisper in their ear that you want to go back to your place, take a hot shower together, and lick her from head to toe.....bingo....formula has worked often in the past.....
 

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Dank, sorry but grimdimg was in 20 years ago - it was called "The Lambata" - South American hos started this shyt you call grinding/dancing. Not many people took it up in America. At that time there was not the preponderance of hors that there are today - now since most young girls are hors, the grinding craze took off 15-20 years after it was first introduced! This younger generation of women today are the most sluttiest of all time, thus they embraced and brought into vogue "The Hor Dance"
 
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When you go to a club, who else are you going to hook up with besides a slut? Go elsewhere for dating and marriage prospects.
 
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