Being a Player

[antidonjuan]

If other girls see you as a player, will they lose their attraction on you because they are seeing you flirting with so many girls?

 

[DJ Axton]

hell no. Why do you think players get women? Women dont just want what they can't have, women want what everyone but they have, if you get my drift.

 

[Eklipse]

You actually get the exact opposite effect

 

[HandyAndy]

They get jealous of the girls your talking to, and like Axton said, they want what they cant have

 

[antidonjuan]

But do you have to be attractive first in order for the other girls to be jealous?

 

[L Duke]

If other girls see you as a player, will they lose their attraction on you because they are seeing you flirting with so many girls?

preselection

 

[SinJester]

It's called social proof. Girls will think that if other girls find you interesting/attractive/whatever that you must be that and it will raise their interest.

You have to be attractive (not physically) for girls to be interested but if they see you with other girls and even if they are NOT interested if they LOOK interested or that's how other girls percieve it will be the same and they might be 'jealous'.

 

[Crazy Asian]

If other girls see you as a player, will they lose their attraction on you because they are seeing you flirting with so many girls?

you don't want to be seen as a "player" cause girls will avoid you.

You do however, want to have lots of girls around you.

 

[619joe]

If your too much of a player and it seems like your trying too hard,then thats a turn off.

In one keys to the vip episode,that guy kyle had said to the girl

"I was looking at you from over there and decided to finally get the courage to talk with you"

she responds with

"But I saw you,you were talking with like a whole bunch of girls"

I didnt match up the words perfectly but you get the jist of it.One of the judges then said "See she commented on him being a player,but in the end,all girls want a player.They dont want a loser".

Other than that,the other people in this thread nailed it perfectly

 

[antidonjuan]

Change your name man, its negative, it's just reinforcing how you feel about yourself when you made that name be

bigdaddy**** or something

I really want to change it now! I went to CP and I cant find the change name button. How do I change it?

 

[HandyAndy]

I really want to change it now! I went to CP and I cant find the change name button. How do I change it?

:crackup: You need to create a whole new account.

 

[schttrj]

man, if u dont want to change ur name, because u know u r pop in here in this name, then be it. I think so.

and to the topic, i can say one thing to all the guys. u can rectify me if u want or think im wrong, but u understand a human's psychology, then ur way ahead. u dont need to resort to any of the tricks or techniques. I will saying something different here. women are curious about players but women have high defensive shields when they interact with players. so u know where i m coming from? in fact, it can happen that they come to talk to u or get ur attention but dont think they are attracted to u. attraction is when they start seeing u as a potential mate. im not a phd in psychology but i have been in this same situation a lot many times. what u can do is find a target, ignore her and make as many women friends of hers as possible. get a good rapport with 'em, here i mean no flirting, ok? i REPEAT u should not flirt with her friends in front of her. teasing and flirting are different things. try to understand that. u can tease ur male buddies too but u cant flirt with them. u get me? if u are attempting to attract a whole set, it can be hard and i dont have much idea bout that. only can say the more u demonstrate high value, the more the set would get attracted to u. attraction is not only showing interest, attraction is when she has to show some compliance and passes that. women are curious bout players but also wary of 'em. and once u get this shields build up, u flirt with her, u have a wonderful vibe with her, then also i tell u and i am talking of a quality woman here, its in her hands whether she will open herself to u or not. thnx, buddies! keep rocking!

 

[yungahdubz]

Men use womens physical attraction as a means of finding out their social value. If she hot, she'll have more value than some who isn't.

Women use mens personality/frame/mindset as a means of finding out their social value. If they are surrounded by and interacting with a lot of girls then people will get the idea you have an attractive personality/frame/mindset and will therefore find you attractive.

 

[schttrj]

i want a question from the guys: what you want? this is very important. do you want women to give u attention all the time and be curious about you or do you want to have the skills or persona to kill any chick you want, either a HB 10 or HB 7? the advice depends on teh tip. if u want to get 'em curious bout u that is a ladies man, just peacock, wear a genuine ****y attitude, have fun and try to be the party yourself wherever you go. but if you want to be a player, be the alpha, and play the game! its not getting them curious or interested in u, i tell u once again, its making them fall in love with u, dats wat u want if im correct.

 

[antidonjuan]

Thank you for your response schttrj. I am quite different here and I came here to become a real man (I'm turning 15). I also want to have a lot of social skills and interaction skills with other people in order for me to do what I want to do in my future. That includes getting comfortable with women and get to know their real nature. My goal is to have lots of experience in my teen years interacting with the social society. With women, I want to develope the skills in order to attract women. I am not looking for sex or relationship, I just want some attracting skills and menhood skills maybe adding some kino skills to use it later on in my life.

 

[schttrj]

Thank you for your response schttrj. I am quite different here and I came here to become a real man (I'm turning 15). I also want to have a lot of social skills and interaction skills with other people in order for me to do what I want to do in my future. That includes getting comfortable with women and get to know their real nature. My goal is to have lots of experience in my teen years interacting with the social society. With women, I want to develope the skills in order to attract women. I am not looking for sex or relationship, I just want some attracting skills and menhood skills maybe adding some kino skills to use it later on in my life.

ok, wat we get here is u want to have girls pay u attention and be interested or attracted to u sexually, if im right, but u dont want to make use of that by going for the final thing or getting into a relationship at the moment. ok? cool.... now, wat i would say something to u, U JUST TRY TO BE AN ALPHA! ur goal is that at this moment, that means u have to work on ur body language, and more importantly, u gotta remind urself all the time that u see guys and gals in the same light, u get me? no flirting with them at the moment. u should focus on how to open and create a great chemistry with anyone u meet. lemme tell one of my belief: they say girls get attracted to alpha or a trully sexual man but EVEN GUYS GET ATTRACTED TO AN ALPHA TOO! Ok, here im not talking about gays or likes, but since u r quite young, u would see anywhere u want that there are a dominant yet pleasant-go-along-with, sexually attractive yet not-a-player kind here and there and u will be curious about him maybe in respect or maybe in awe, but u will. thats what u r supposed to be. I tell you, TRUE PLAYERS ARE A COMBINATION OF ALPHA AND TECHNIQUES. and must note one thing here, u be an alpha, u r still well off and girls will notice u but u be a techniques-addict, u will come of as a player, and i tell u once again guys, players are temporary when it comes to a relationship, but alphas stand out anywhere they go!

 

[antidonjuan]

no thanks, building character is what I will focus on, I'll re-read the bible again on character.