"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Being A Nice Guy... That's ME ARrrrghhh

NoMoreAFC

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I'm sick of busting my ass for women......being a nice guy is what you need to do when your a husband/father.....

but, if your a nice guy now (me being 28), alot of chicks just take advantage of that. And by taking advantage, I mean they usually use me to:

a - boost their egos...since most of them come crying to me telling me they're ugly and what not. And I do the typical Nice guy thing of telling them their not such and such hoping to get some action, and then they just say thanks and **** off

b - relieve all their "fustrations". Ya, usually any of the girls I know..if they have problems with your boyfriends or guy they like. They come crying and whining to me about it and I USE to help they out as best I can. Like give them advice and ****.

c - just use me for my money. IE - whenever I take girls out on dates and ****, I always pay for everything cause well I think that's the "nice" thing to do....so they got on, have a good time on Toddske's dime...then **** off...


Well, if you want to just get a girl in the sack for a little while....you gotta be an *******.....I know, it sounds just ****ed and stupid, but it's honestly the truth! I've tried it and actually works. Whenever any of my old friends come up to me with their problems, I usually tell them to **** off now cause I got my own problems to deal with.....

but either way, yes...in this day adn age.....Nice guys do finish last...

Cause in my opinion, guys are only friends with girls cause they wanna **** them....now I anyone that says "That's not true, I like my female friends like a sister BLAH BLAH BLAH" is a flat out lie....

THE ONLY REASON GUYS REMAIN FRIENDS WITH A GIRL IS FOR THAT SLIM CHANCE THAT THEY MIGHT SLEEP TOGETHER...end of story....and girls won't do it "cause they respect you" and "don't want to ruin a friendship yak yak yak"....

**** can you tell I'm pissed off at this topic now........****en women, some of them drive me ****en nuts with all their bull****....


I'm going NUTSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I know exactly how you feel


Just read the bible, if it helped me, it can do the same for you as we have'had the same problem
 

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I was at home yesterday watching Dr. Phil, and they had these women on there who were gold diggers, and said that they would not date a guy unless he was rich. Back in the day, I would have condemned these women. Today, I say GO GOLD DIGGERS! I am a hustler, and I respect the hustle. McDonalds gets rich off of fat people, drug dealers get rich off of feins.....the drug dealer and McDonalds would be out of business if the people they were selling to would wake the fvck up.

Okay? So you guys need to stop saying my girl used me, or my girl played me, because if you are stupid enough to think that you can buy her love......than she will just sit around and get rich off your azz. Offer her you, not your wallet and you wont have a problem. Hell, unless she has a gun to your head and says give me your money, if you give her your money, that is your own damn fault.

PVSSY-EATER OUT
 

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I don't think going the ******* way is the best choice. As with anything, either extreme will eventually bring dissatisfaction.

I'm not a jerk. I'm not a nice guy. I'm a humorous, kind person who can be serious and lay down the law when I need to. PEople come to me for problems, but I turn the convo around within the first 2 minutes max only something happy or making their situation seem really funny and we just start laughing. There's a good side to everything in life, you just gotta find it.
 
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