Being a Natural

[Crissco]

Ive always been classified as a natural, not just by me, but by a lot of women around me. Even when I was 9 years also I was hitting on older women all the time, and was called a natural at 9 by my cousins gf. Ive been reading a bit on Pick Up lately, bc I think the combination and a DJ and PUA is an unstoppable force. From what ive been reading a natural is someone with confidence, attitude, no fear to talk to strangers and picks up on things very quickly. That defines me to a T. I think im a natural because 1. My high sexual energy. 2. My boldness, and fearlessness of taking on most tasks. and 3.Bring able to act quicky in the moment and escalate without even thinknig..All this was before I ever knew about the seduction community.

My problem is ive been reading so much ive been getting a bit confused on what to do in certain situations that still confuse me a bit. Every little bit helps but theres so much information out there its making my head spin. DJ/PUA has helped me and hurt me at the same time. It has answered a lot of questions ive had regarding women, and it also hurt me because its messing up my natural flow of things. Im thinking about doing the DJ boot camp because that helps refine certain skills and pushes me to my limits. Whats everyone's opinion of this?

Crissco

 

[hithard]

Ive always been classified as a natural, not just by me, but by a lot of women around me. Even when I was 9 years also I was hitting on older women all the time, and was called a natural at 9 by my cousins gf. Ive been reading a bit on Pick Up lately, bc I think the combination and a DJ and PUA is an unstoppable force. From what ive been reading a natural is someone with confidence, attitude, no fear to talk to strangers and picks up on things very quickly. That defines me to a T. I think im a natural because 1. My high sexual energy. 2. My boldness, and fearlessness of taking on most tasks. and 3.Bring able to act quicky in the moment and escalate without even thinknig..All this was before I ever knew about the seduction community.

My problem is ive been reading so much ive been getting a bit confused on what to do in certain situations that still confuse me a bit. Every little bit helps but theres so much information out there its making my head spin. DJ/PUA has helped me and hurt me at the same time. It has answered a lot of questions ive had regarding women, and it also hurt me because its messing up my natural flow of things. Im thinking about doing the DJ boot camp because that helps refine certain skills and pushes me to my limits. Whats everyone's opinion of this?

Crissco

Don't go reading too much if you were already getting laid easily. Take little bits at a time and try them out in the real world and see how they fit. Reading too much in one hit can damage natural flow and your views on women. A lot of this stuff is for socially awkward guys becoming more natural. Where as you do not need a complete makeover just some polishing round the edges. Keep to Small doses. And remember it should be an extension of your natural game, not all new game.

 

[Crissco]

Don't go reading too much if you were already getting laid easily. Take little bits at a time and try them out in the real world and see how they fit. Reading too much in one hit can damage natural flow and your views on women. A lot of this stuff is for socially awkward guys becoming more natural. Where as you do not need a complete makeover just some polishing round the edges. Keep to Small doses. And remember it should be an extension of your natural game, not all new game.

Very well put man, I came to notice that too and definitely agree 100% on that.. I still want to give the boot camp a shot though, its looks very tempting, and plus it'll be a good laugh to randomly walk around saying hi to people, who knows I might meet some hottie.

 

[hithard]

Very well put man, I came to notice that too and definitely agree 100% on that.. I still want to give the boot camp a shot though, its looks very tempting, and plus it'll be a good laugh to randomly walk around saying hi to people, who knows I might meet some hottie.

Things like the boot camp are fine. It is beneficial to developing your skills. Forcing as many interactions with girls and completing objectives while taking note of what works and what doesn't, etc.Don't go through the motions though. Notice something that interests you about them and have a actual conversation.


The other objective is developing yourself.
Knowing what you want in a partner (make sure they tick the boxes)
Knowing what you want out of life
Standing by your core values
Health
Hobbies
Finances

Not in order either
Don't put total focus into just one area try to balance it out. Small steps and you will be fine.

 

[Crissco]

Exactly what im going to do. Like I said if I get a number,date or convo out of the hi's im going be doing during the second week, I got no complaints here. I never go through the motions, I always put in the most effort and "enthusiasm" into my conversations to make them interesting. To the part about developing my self: thats all me brotha, gotta take it little by little, step by step. Appreciate the advice bro.

Things like the boot camp are fine. It is beneficial to developing your skills. Forcing as many interactions with girls and completing objectives while taking note of what works and what doesn't, etc.Don't go through the motions though. Notice something that interests you about them and have a actual conversation.


The other objective is developing yourself.
Knowing what you want in a partner (make sure they tick the boxes)
Knowing what you want out of life
Standing by your core values
Health
Hobbies
Finances

Not in order either
Don't put total focus into just one area try to balance it out. Small steps and you will be fine.