Being a man

[oscarxp25]

I noticed that I can't control my emotions and tear up easily and I hate it. How can I control this terrible trait?


Are there some good sites about how to be a man?

 

[abcd_z]

That's not really the sort of thing we can help you with. I would suggest finding a therapist whose main focus is cognitive therapy or behavioral therapy (or, obviously, cognitive-behavioral therapy).

 

[bigpoppa650]

stop masterbating.

 

[CaptainJ]

If you find are too emotional, then simply don't get emotional. Every time you feel emotions welling up inside you, repress them and just think "I'm here to have fun, and nothing is going to stop me", it works really well for me. You have much more control over your emotions than you think, you just need to exercise that control. Don't ever let your emotions get the better of you.

 

[r0cky]

Meditation has worked for me. Here's a good video on how to do the type of meditation to calm your emotions and feelings.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HLcIQEbLyUg