being a jerk DOES NOT always worked

[skip2mylou781]

Guys guys guys....and sosauve in general, i understand that hot women love jerks who r ****y and all that and trust me, ive been that way and its worked, it reels them in real well., i get layed using that kinda atittude and approach but some of u may be missing something -


some hot girls have been hurt b4 and they want a NICE SWEET guy and guess what I have done?

I have at times been sooooooooo ridiculously sweet to girls, that they claim to love me within a week and i get laid.....its worked many many times, and these girls were all at the very least good looking (cute with very fit bodies and booties lol ect),

so the hint here is, make the girl believe that u r the SWEETEST guy in the world, and most likely ull get layed (esp if she thinks ur at least decent looking)



another benefit to this is that she mite wanna date u as well so if u want a really hot gf, sweetness works just as well as ****y and all that (on a side note, I personally was very very sweet but still entertaining and funny, deff not boring, so mite be part of the reason this has worked for me)......



make her feel like ur sweeter than any guy out there, and ull get wat u want



this has all been an alternative suggestion to acting like an alpha male, and the proof is, ITS WORKED FOR ME



QUESTIONS ANYONE?

 

[LeviathanIYG]

To sweet is bad.

This site doesn't teach people to be jerks you might want to read before you make accusations.

 

[skip2mylou781]

too sweet has gotten me laid about 10 times due to the girl thinking she loves me....kind of a jerk thing to do i kno, but being ****y and cool to get laid is basically the same thing and

FYI, i love wat sosuave teaches and preaches, u misunderstand wat i meant when i said jerk, cuz wat i meant to say is jerk qualities which women feel attraction to

 

[LeviathanIYG]

Majority of the guys here are here because they are being to sweet and it's not working.

 

[skip2mylou781]

majority of the guys are too sweet in a desperate way, but my friend, being very very sweet in a romantic way is a whole other story........by the way, the sweetness deff wont take u far in a relationship, i agree girls do NOT like that no matter wat they say cuz they just get bored of it...but being super sweet for a lil while and gettin laid, thats wat im talkin about

 

[LeviathanIYG]

So being super sweet works on 1 out of every 10 girls.

According to you that is you success rate and the fact that you use the sweetness method.

My theory works on 7-9 out of 10 girls

Hahahaha so theoretically the 1 girl that rejects me out of every 10 girls that I approach is the one that likes sweet guys and has sex with you.

mmmm for some strange reason I'm going to stick to my method.

Man like i said you better learn a few thing before you start givign advice.

Please don't fill up these forums with anymore rubbish.

 

[MetalFortress]

I'm going to coin a new phrase right now: ****y and sweet.

Apart, they are questionable. Together, they are perfect. Being sweet works with a guy who is a high status male. Low status, sweet sucks.

 

[skip2mylou781]

no i never said the sweetest works on 1 outta 10 girls, WHEN DID I EVER SAY THAT? i said its gotten me LAID 10 TIMES....wat thread ru reading? and deff combining extreme sweetness with funny and ****y works even more wonders

 

[Mr. Non-Juan]

That depends, of course, on what you define as being "sweet." Even so-called "jerks" can be sweet - they might "say" one thing to make themself "sound" like a jerk, but still commit actions that make a girl feel "sweeted" upon, LoL! Like, he could be saying stuff that's ****y and funny, but be doing sweet stuff like opening doors for her, pulling out her seat, etc.

If you're trying to be a Non-Juan, stick with saying AND doing sweet stuff on a consistent basis. Don't mix it up, cause the girl may feel like you're giving her mixed signals and try to figure you out, which will only make her stay around longer.

-Mr. Non-Juan

 

[triumvirate]

This can be good advice to some people, but to the majority it will be detrimental. If you are someone who girls consider very good-looking then you can do the sweet thing and have girls say they want to be with you forever blah blah blah. In fact it will give you the widest appeal, since girls on every spot on the attractiveness spectrum will want to believe that you want them. This is similar to really attractive girls who are nice have a lot of guys that think she wants them because she is nice to them. People want to believe that when a good-looking person is nice to them they are treating them special because they want them.

You are old enough to know how most girls view you as far as attractiveness goes. If you are in the upper range, being sweet will have girls of all types after you: fat, skinny, pretty, ugly, whatever. If you are a "jerk" only the really attractive girls will go for you because they will view you as a challenge, the rest will have the attitude of "I knew he was a jerk, look how handsome he is". If you are average looks, you might as well be a "jerk" all the time if you want to get anywhere. Of course when someone says jerk I assume they mean C+F, ball-busting, etc.

 

[oobm]

Don't be a jerk. Be confident. I think this is what this thread is about. You can be confident, stand your ground, take charge of the date, and STILL be 'sweet' or nice.

 

[Datawolf]

Don't be sweet at the very beginning. Let her earn the priviledge of seeing that side of you.

 

[MVP]

Yeah I agree with most of what he said. As long as you don't come across as boring or needy, being sweet and nice works really well. The problem with most guys is they start being really desperate and that will backfire. But if you're confident and cool about it, then it's good to be a nice guy.

 

[\O/]

Teasing a girl and making fun of her in a playful way isn't a cruel thing to do. It's nice and funny and it will make her all tingly inside

Go ahead, read her poems, buy her flowers, tell her that you love the colour of her eyes in the moonlight, only do the things she wants to do, let her get away with everything just because she's sooo cute.. But don't come crying when she screws the guy who made fun of her shirt and told her she kisses funny. Cause that's what's gonna happen.

 

[DMan77]

I think ive always found.. and read.. that laying a little sweet talk on girls that are somewhere between a 5-7 on the HB scale. will get you a better outcome then being ****y and funny or neging.
the all out C&F and negging should be left to the 8-10's.

Not that you should abandon it completely with the 5-7's, but definitly do go to over board. alot of the time those girls have some glaring self-esteem problems. you'll end up hurting their feelings rather then making them laugh and promoting attraction

 

[\O/]

Originally posted by DMan77
I think ive always found.. and read.. that laying a little sweet talk on girls that are somewhere between a 5-7 on the HB scale. will get you a better outcome then being ****y and funny or neging.
the all out C&F and negging should be left to the 8-10's.

Not that you should abandon it completely with the 5-7's, but definitly do go to over board. alot of the time those girls have some glaring self-esteem problems. you'll end up hurting their feelings rather then making them laugh and promoting attraction

You should never neg a 5-7. That will do you no good and she will only feel insulted or hurt. Unless she's an 8-10, or believes she is, then I'd advice you never to neg her. You can still tease and bust their balls, but like you said, these girls often have low selfesteem and/or insecurities in which case negging has no purpose.

Remember that negs are supposed to "even the score" between you and the hottie. You pay her a backhanded compliment that lowers her value to you, so that she feels like she have to work harder to get your approval (which she normally gets from every guy without even saying a word)

 

[DMan77]

hah, yeah thats definitly a lesson i learned the hard way once or twice.
but what other way is there to learn a lesson?