"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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being a gentleman

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http://en.qantara.de/Vulgarity-Is-the-Opposite-of-Manners/8544c8613i1p516/

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwkYpcCgKzM&feature=related

First of all I'd like to say that being a gentleman on the initial interaction could be a good way to show masculine polarity and convey trust-ability.

Secondly, one can combine manners with sexuality.

Recently an HB greeted me, and I greeted her but I said the formal version of 'you', which doesn't exist in english. Anyway, she turned around and carried on being drugged up, but a second later she turned around, walked back to me and gave me a kiss on the lips. I got the number but I haven't called because I can't think of nothing interesting to do with her.

Edit: also watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps&feature=related
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I will agree that many women don't deserve gentlemanly behaviour. I still think it's a good way to seduce some women though. I like to make them feel special. I'll light a cigarette for them, or hold open a door for them, when I'm gaming them and in a 90% eye-contact vibe.

It's a means to polarise! You can also polarise by pulling the feminism card, but how many times has arguing over female astronauts and soldiers brought you any pvssy??

Pleasing women is a part of seduction.

I don't think we should supplicate. But I think we should have manners.

Edit: Here is a quote from Wikipedia:
What is considered "mannerly" is highly susceptible to change with time, geographical location, social stratum, occasion, and other factors. That manners matter is evidenced by the fact that large books have been written on the subject, advice columns frequently deal with questions of mannerly behavior, and that schools have existed for the sole purpose of teaching manners. A lady is a term frequently used for a woman who follows proper manners; the term gentleman is used as a male counterpart.

Now there are still gentlemen walking around. The question is: where are the ladies?

You're looking for a quality girl right? I know I am. I don't need a pretentious b*tch for a lady. I just want a well-mannered girl who doesn't step on people's toes and stays out of trouble. For one of those - I would hold open a door.
 
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