Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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being a gentleman

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http://en.qantara.de/Vulgarity-Is-the-Opposite-of-Manners/8544c8613i1p516/

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwkYpcCgKzM&feature=related

First of all I'd like to say that being a gentleman on the initial interaction could be a good way to show masculine polarity and convey trust-ability.

Secondly, one can combine manners with sexuality.

Recently an HB greeted me, and I greeted her but I said the formal version of 'you', which doesn't exist in english. Anyway, she turned around and carried on being drugged up, but a second later she turned around, walked back to me and gave me a kiss on the lips. I got the number but I haven't called because I can't think of nothing interesting to do with her.

Edit: also watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps&feature=related
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I will agree that many women don't deserve gentlemanly behaviour. I still think it's a good way to seduce some women though. I like to make them feel special. I'll light a cigarette for them, or hold open a door for them, when I'm gaming them and in a 90% eye-contact vibe.

It's a means to polarise! You can also polarise by pulling the feminism card, but how many times has arguing over female astronauts and soldiers brought you any pvssy??

Pleasing women is a part of seduction.

I don't think we should supplicate. But I think we should have manners.

Edit: Here is a quote from Wikipedia:
What is considered "mannerly" is highly susceptible to change with time, geographical location, social stratum, occasion, and other factors. That manners matter is evidenced by the fact that large books have been written on the subject, advice columns frequently deal with questions of mannerly behavior, and that schools have existed for the sole purpose of teaching manners. A lady is a term frequently used for a woman who follows proper manners; the term gentleman is used as a male counterpart.

Now there are still gentlemen walking around. The question is: where are the ladies?

You're looking for a quality girl right? I know I am. I don't need a pretentious b*tch for a lady. I just want a well-mannered girl who doesn't step on people's toes and stays out of trouble. For one of those - I would hold open a door.
 
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