I'm not sure if you'd call him a DJ but a buddy of mine gets alot of pVssy. He likes his lifestyle but at the same time I know he would like to meet a great girl and have a relationship. It is in this area where he isn't so lucky. It seems like he's great at getting the girls but he just can't keep them. It got me to thinking and I was kind of wondering if anyone else has this problem too.
Still using my friend as an example. He has great game. Very personable, excellent conversationalist, always dressed well, funny, smart, good looking, well built, etc. (Sound like a DJ?)
So it was confusing me as to why he couldn't keep any chick with him until I realized one thing.
He has great game but that's pretty much it. He doesn't have a whole lot going for himself except the fact that he is great at picking up women!!! Besides that, his life is pretty much ho-hum. His job is uninteresting, not many interests or hobbies, no exceptional talents or skills. He's just pretty plain.
So I was thinking how many struggling guys out there in DJ land are SO focused on improving their game that they are forgetting about the most important part. THEMSELVES!!!
We all know that women are constantly looking for the Bigger Better Deal. It could be Looks, Money, Power, Fame, Talent, whatever. You absolutely need to have things going for you if you want to keep a particular woman around. You need to be constantly improving yourself and making yourself more marketable.
How many times have you heard someone say they've seen some AFC with a real hottie and they can't figure it out? Fact of the matter is you can have a ton of great things going on in your life while being a total AFC and still get the girl.
Oxide had a great post a while back. Something about writing a list of all the skills and talents you posess. The things you are proud of. And everyday you try and better yourself and add new things to the list. They could be anything. Perhaps you know how to do a tune-up on your car or know how to make sushi. Maybe you are a mountain climber or play guitar. Maybe you are a great artist or you specialize in woodwork. Whatever.
None of these skills or talents have anything to do with women, but they are the things that make you an interesting person. The things that make you a better person than the next guy.
We're all here to become more successful with women. We all want to improve our game. And we all want it to happen NOW. While having a great game could be considered a talent itself, don't let it be all you have going for you.
Remember to Focus on Yourself.
Soon enough your list of talents and skills will be so long that the women who get to know you will be amazed at all the things you have going for you. You create attraction just by being interesting.
Having a good game on top of all the other things you have going for you will make you........Downright Unstoppable!!!
Still using my friend as an example. He has great game. Very personable, excellent conversationalist, always dressed well, funny, smart, good looking, well built, etc. (Sound like a DJ?)
So it was confusing me as to why he couldn't keep any chick with him until I realized one thing.
He has great game but that's pretty much it. He doesn't have a whole lot going for himself except the fact that he is great at picking up women!!! Besides that, his life is pretty much ho-hum. His job is uninteresting, not many interests or hobbies, no exceptional talents or skills. He's just pretty plain.
So I was thinking how many struggling guys out there in DJ land are SO focused on improving their game that they are forgetting about the most important part. THEMSELVES!!!
We all know that women are constantly looking for the Bigger Better Deal. It could be Looks, Money, Power, Fame, Talent, whatever. You absolutely need to have things going for you if you want to keep a particular woman around. You need to be constantly improving yourself and making yourself more marketable.
How many times have you heard someone say they've seen some AFC with a real hottie and they can't figure it out? Fact of the matter is you can have a ton of great things going on in your life while being a total AFC and still get the girl.
Oxide had a great post a while back. Something about writing a list of all the skills and talents you posess. The things you are proud of. And everyday you try and better yourself and add new things to the list. They could be anything. Perhaps you know how to do a tune-up on your car or know how to make sushi. Maybe you are a mountain climber or play guitar. Maybe you are a great artist or you specialize in woodwork. Whatever.
None of these skills or talents have anything to do with women, but they are the things that make you an interesting person. The things that make you a better person than the next guy.
We're all here to become more successful with women. We all want to improve our game. And we all want it to happen NOW. While having a great game could be considered a talent itself, don't let it be all you have going for you.
Remember to Focus on Yourself.
Soon enough your list of talents and skills will be so long that the women who get to know you will be amazed at all the things you have going for you. You create attraction just by being interesting.
Having a good game on top of all the other things you have going for you will make you........Downright Unstoppable!!!