"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being a cowboy

Ballie57

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Hi Dudes

As you might know, I am a sem-retired farmer here in KZN and the winter has been cold! I mean this old 'er farm house is over a 100 years old and belongs to my swaar (brother in law).

Anyway, after a dry winter, comes the summer rains. The grass is growing green and the milk cows are producing milk.

Well, as an additional source of income, I am installing open view HD TV, a new TV satellite channel and today. as in my teens, my favourite type of movie came on.

You know like John Wayne, Clint Eastwood and all those Alpha dude's who rocked up in town and some rich baddie tried to run them off the old homestead.

Anyway - that opens the discussion in a nut shell! Those dudes were apha!
Clint Eastwood in The good the bad and the ugly sums us So Suave members up - I rather be like Clint Eastwood and claim my rewards.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scaramouche

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Hi Ballie,
One of the main contributors here when I first started reading Posts used to have a Signature..."If in doubt,ask what Clint Eastwood would do"....I really wonder how much our values systems was shaped by those great Westerns,and their heroes!
 

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My dad made me watch them as a kid. I now realize why he did, great ole classics. Sounds like a good idea for some down time tomorrow!

When a cowboy draws a line in the sand, it doesn't matter man or woman crosses it, that cowboy knows what he needs to do.
 

Ballie57

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"If in doubt,ask what Clint Eastwood would do"....I really wonder how much our values systems was shaped by those great Westerns,and their heroes!
Thanks mate, I won't steal that signature - as it is a very good one! But, I am religious and my son is a youth pastor in Cape Town and his motto is "What would Jesus do?"

Being alpha does not depend on how much you got in your bank account. I hardly had a dime in my pocket when I met Zoey in Toti and she bought me a drink, it all depends on your Attitude!

A man's wealth is in his children and how he brought them up, on his core values. Work hard and generate income, put in the extra hours if you have to. In business, focus on your core business - in my case, solar power and security.

Those old cowboy movies did that. Like as a child Peter and I watched "The biker mice from Mars" so many cool movies you can relate to, like Rambo, etc
 
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