"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Being a cowboy

Ballie57

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Hi Dudes

As you might know, I am a sem-retired farmer here in KZN and the winter has been cold! I mean this old 'er farm house is over a 100 years old and belongs to my swaar (brother in law).

Anyway, after a dry winter, comes the summer rains. The grass is growing green and the milk cows are producing milk.

Well, as an additional source of income, I am installing open view HD TV, a new TV satellite channel and today. as in my teens, my favourite type of movie came on.

You know like John Wayne, Clint Eastwood and all those Alpha dude's who rocked up in town and some rich baddie tried to run them off the old homestead.

Anyway - that opens the discussion in a nut shell! Those dudes were apha!
Clint Eastwood in The good the bad and the ugly sums us So Suave members up - I rather be like Clint Eastwood and claim my rewards.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Scaramouche

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Hi Ballie,
One of the main contributors here when I first started reading Posts used to have a Signature..."If in doubt,ask what Clint Eastwood would do"....I really wonder how much our values systems was shaped by those great Westerns,and their heroes!
 

hockeyfreak79

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My dad made me watch them as a kid. I now realize why he did, great ole classics. Sounds like a good idea for some down time tomorrow!

When a cowboy draws a line in the sand, it doesn't matter man or woman crosses it, that cowboy knows what he needs to do.
 

Ballie57

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"If in doubt,ask what Clint Eastwood would do"....I really wonder how much our values systems was shaped by those great Westerns,and their heroes!
Thanks mate, I won't steal that signature - as it is a very good one! But, I am religious and my son is a youth pastor in Cape Town and his motto is "What would Jesus do?"

Being alpha does not depend on how much you got in your bank account. I hardly had a dime in my pocket when I met Zoey in Toti and she bought me a drink, it all depends on your Attitude!

A man's wealth is in his children and how he brought them up, on his core values. Work hard and generate income, put in the extra hours if you have to. In business, focus on your core business - in my case, solar power and security.

Those old cowboy movies did that. Like as a child Peter and I watched "The biker mice from Mars" so many cool movies you can relate to, like Rambo, etc
 
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