"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Being A Booty Call

Comatozed

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Whats the DJ stance on this?

Last night I left mine at about 1 am to go **** a girl. It kinda goes against being too available/looks a bit like your desperate for sex, but at the same time, you're getting sex - which is the whole point of this forum.

I feel I've lowered my value to her now though, was first time ****ing her - she'd from tinder, met her once prior.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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J Roc

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Comatozed said:
Whats the DJ stance on this?

Last night I left mine at about 1 am to go **** a girl. It kinda goes against being too available/looks a bit like your desperate for sex, but at the same time, you're getting sex - which is the whole point of this forum.

I feel I've lowered my value to her now though, was first time ****ing her - she'd from tinder, met her once prior.
She is a slut from tinder. Who cares what she thinks. Continue to **** her brains out and toss her back into the tinder recycle bin when you're done!
 

Comatozed

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Yea I get that. Just meant in terms of keeping her around for a few more smashes. That probs boils down more to my performance though ey.
 

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sorta. "Booty call" is not a natural state for women. They either leave completely or press for more. Just assume it'll end and you won't be too disappointed when it does.
 
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