Hello
First let me start off by saying that I am not one of "those guys" who sucked at life in high school and expects to rake in tons of girls in college. I have enjoyed my time in high school.. I learned that I am fortunate enough that a good number of girls / women find me attractive. Its just that what I also figured out is even if a girl is interested, you really have to see her at a party or some other social event out of school to get anywhere with her. The thing is I am not really in the party-crowd at my school, so I was wondering if anyone in college / out of college can give me some advice on what to do to establish myself socially once i start college this fall.. I think I'm decent at making friends, i'm pretty chill, and i am planning on playing an intramural sport so I think i have a good start but really anything else you might want to add, feel free
edit: just to add but I'm not really looking for like a don juan method or ways to avoid being an AFC, if that stuff works well for you then thats great but i think i've figured out who I am in life and i am just looking to incorporate that into a large social circle... still thinking about whether i would want to get involved in a frat or not (probably not)
First let me start off by saying that I am not one of "those guys" who sucked at life in high school and expects to rake in tons of girls in college. I have enjoyed my time in high school.. I learned that I am fortunate enough that a good number of girls / women find me attractive. Its just that what I also figured out is even if a girl is interested, you really have to see her at a party or some other social event out of school to get anywhere with her. The thing is I am not really in the party-crowd at my school, so I was wondering if anyone in college / out of college can give me some advice on what to do to establish myself socially once i start college this fall.. I think I'm decent at making friends, i'm pretty chill, and i am planning on playing an intramural sport so I think i have a good start but really anything else you might want to add, feel free
edit: just to add but I'm not really looking for like a don juan method or ways to avoid being an AFC, if that stuff works well for you then thats great but i think i've figured out who I am in life and i am just looking to incorporate that into a large social circle... still thinking about whether i would want to get involved in a frat or not (probably not)