"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Behind the magic curtain

Murk

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So I got a very rare glimpse behind the curtain today.

Usually in relationships once it's over that's it - never see or hear from them again and move on. Earlier my ex gf's now ex housemate called me and we spoke about stuff and he revealed she had jumped on the CC and been banging some less than great looking guys. Even snapped his GF a pic of some brother in her bed a long while ago, the clown.

I feel absolutely nothing negative, I thought I would care, I actually feel better knowing this. If he said she had been seeing this guy and things are going well it may have got to me. Instead he painted a rather depressing picture and I feel like the overall winner here. No repeat business, staying home a lot being grumpy. This shouldn't make me happy, someone else's unhappiness and no doubt lack of self worth, but it does. I feel great.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Red Legg

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OP it should not matter if they are getting along great or not you obviously still care about the outcome...move on for Christ's sake..
 
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