“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CableLight

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No, the plot of this isn't quite as sinister as the connotation you might percieve from the title, but...whatever, just read.

I remember when I first joined this site as a 16-year-old and I heard a tactic on the board and dismissed it (ignorantly, might I add) without much thought. It sounded so stupid and unnecessary; but now that I've actually tried it and benefitted from it, I suggest some of you maybe give this a try as well. The only real problem with this is that it takes some patience.

What to do: Befriend women. You might have read that last line and thought to yourself "Wow, brilliant idea, retard" but let me finish. I'm not talking about befriending girls with the implication of hooking up with them later, I'm talking about actually getting girls as legit friends to hang around with and whatnot without romatic underties - period.

Why? Because having girls as actual friends you hang out with can bring some nice rewards. About 50% of the people I hang around with on a regular basis at college are girls, and those girls have a lot to offer. Think about it - most girls have a whole squad of people they want to hang out with and party with and bring over, etc. And what makes up the general population of the friends of girls? Thats right: More girls.

By befriending girls, you're potentially able to access 2-3 times (or higher) more girls vicariously - which, simply put, means you don't have to put in hardly any effort to meet women as they're basically brought to you.

Sound easy? It is. The only real trouble is dealing with their friends you aren't attracted to. It should also be said that even the girls you're not attracted to can have some decently hot friends of their own, so you might consider befriending them as well.

To the girls you befriend you're coming off not as a guy obsessed with gettin' poon-tang, but as a guy who simply wants to hang out with them (which they'll enjoy). Also, there's nothing wrong with chillin' with girls in the first place, so don't just try to use them or they'll probably figure it out after a while and get pissy. It's a good idea to keep them happy, because if they get angry, your free supply of girls will be effectively shut down.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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Girls, guys... All the same in the realm of friendship to me.
 

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That's a HELLA good idea!

Some of my closest friends are girls!!
 

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i hang out with friends that are girls too. In fact, there's this girl in our group that i've known for a long time that i want to get with. Some guys have been trying to get her but she rejected them because she keeps saying shes not into relationships now, and she would not talk to them ever again. So learning from that, I've decided to just keep everything cool with her and see what happens next.
 

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The last girl I tried to be with friends with...

The last girl I tried to be friends with ended up being my first relationship.

I cant be friends with girls - I want to sleep with them, or they want to sleep with me - in this case... both. <sigh>
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lots of people here need to take a look at this. It's a solid tip, for sure.

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Man... I have been preaching this one for years.

For anyone who has yet to discover the power of having women friends.... I suggest you find it. The possiblities are endless.
 
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