"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jhonny9546

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As a teenager, I had a teasing, direct, and playful behaviour; I would make sounds and invent words that I then saw others replicate. It was as if I had an influence on them, and they had "absorbed" some of my behaviors.

As I grew older, my behavior changed to become more reserved, quiet, serious, and profound. Many times, I am considered attractive for the "mystery" aura I manage to create, but when it comes to being playful, I can no longer do it like I used to. Infact I've noted people to replicate my "healthy" habits rather than my behaviour.

However, I notice that there are men my age who still exhibit the behavior I had in my adolescence and who manage to have much more influence than I do.

Now, I'm not an expert, but understanding which of the two behaviors is more suitable for a mature man would really help me understand how I should behave because I believe that in some situations I suppress my behavior.

Also, I do think that if other people emulate you, it's like their entering your frame.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jhonny9546

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When you mature, your humour also matures. So a mature man is less 'playful' but the teasing becomes more naughty/mischievous. Possibly, the mischief might be the extremely horny type. Or intrigue. Intrigue is good too.
This really makes things in perspective!
So, which are some good example of those "naughty/mischievous" teasing a mature men would do?
Maybe do a comparision with the less mature and childish guy
 

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As a teenager, I had a teasing, direct, and playful behaviour; I would make sounds and invent words that I then saw others replicate. It was as if I had an influence on them, and they had "absorbed" some of my behaviors.
You were extremely proficient at convincing healthy people to act like retards... Have you considered a career in politics? You clearly possess the necessary talents
 

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You were extremely proficient at convincing healthy people to act like retards... Have you considered a career in politics? You clearly possess the necessary talents
Which are those talents you mention? I can see them in some people around me, because of the fact "You were extremely proficient at convincing healthy people to act like retards".
I think I've lost those qualities growing up
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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