"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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behavior question:whats going on in her head?

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Five To One

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My girlfriend's soccer season recently started and last night I asked when her game started so I could come watch. A pretty normal question right?

Well instead of telling me what time the game starts she tells me she doesnt want me to come.

Yea thats right, she doesnt want her boyfriend to come to watch her play.

Now trust me, I wasnt heartbroken when she said this. I was just being nice and planning to go to her game but now I was off the hook for some reason unknown to me.

She told me she didnt want me to come watch because she was going to do bad. Which is kinda true, she isnt the best on the team but still not terrible. It was a weak excuse trying to cover up something else.

Help me out because this has confused me.

Does her telling me not to come mean she is embarrassed and insecure about playing infront of me... or that I would be a distraction from the game... or do you think it is something else...? The guys soccer team will be there btw, and theres no doubt im my mind that she will be approached by guys on the other soccer team and hit on by guys on our soccer team. Shes an AW so maybe she just does not want me to get in the way?

But also she trys to neg me often which has made me think she is just insecure about the whole relationship we have.

Any feedback is welcome. Hopefully I explainned the situation well enough to understand.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does her telling me not to come mean she is embarrassed and insecure about playing infront of me... or that I would be a distraction from the game
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Yes that's it. Stop being so insecure. If you find out it's anything else then dump her. If she is being such a ***** tell her and if she doesn't improve dump her. However otherwise don't worry about it, its all good. Instead of asking us for advice you should be talking to her about it, just don't be needy and insecure like you are coming accross in this post.

Just putting it how I see it bro.

Peace
 
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i agree with sinjester on this one, trust me, when i play soccer in front of girls i kinda like, i go crazy, im like some greek god descending on the battlefield. but wehn a girl i really like watches me, i trip on my own ass (this actually did happen, but then i went to godliness again to make up for it ;))

just relax dude.
 
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