"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I keep telling myself that I should make a solid stride forward and find one nice HB with a great personality, but a part of me doesn't want to do it and I know that I don't have the time for it.

The more I DJ the more it feels like I'm flushing girls down the toilet over and over again. And sometimes the same sh-it comes back up and I need to flush it again.

I'm at the point now where I just don't care anymore. I don't even want to deal with the shi-t I get from girls when I'm in a relationship. Having a girl friend can be very annoying and time consuming.

My main problem right now is an emotional one. At the moment I'm focused on my goals and I know they are very important. I just find that the need I have inside (like every man) to love a woman is getting in my way. There is no quick fix for this either. It is very distracting at times and I don't want it to be.

When a man becomes focused on his goals the last thing he needs are bull**** feelings to knock him aside.

I don't have time to DJ a bunch of girls. I need to complete my projects and improve aspects of my life first. Maybe there are other guys out there that have the same problem. I just can't ****en deal with this crap sometimes.

Are there any drugs I can take to forget about women so that I can get some work done?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A man handles his sh!t and gets things accomplished. Then, he has time for women. You come off as more of a challenge this way because you are in fact staying busy and not playing any particular game.
 
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Originally posted by TizZle
A man handles his sh!t and gets things accomplished. Then, he has time for women. You come off as more of a challenge this way because you are in fact staying busy and not playing any particular game.
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I know this very well. I have for a long time now. The problem is that sometimes you just get hit from no place with a crazy feeling and it gets in the way.
 
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look dude just put aside those emotions for women until you get your **** together.

I got the same needs as you, but right now i have my goals and i still have to get my **** together, im lost now. Dont need a woman now to mess me up further, until i get my act straight...
 
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