Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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00Kevin

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I keep telling myself that I should make a solid stride forward and find one nice HB with a great personality, but a part of me doesn't want to do it and I know that I don't have the time for it.

The more I DJ the more it feels like I'm flushing girls down the toilet over and over again. And sometimes the same sh-it comes back up and I need to flush it again.

I'm at the point now where I just don't care anymore. I don't even want to deal with the shi-t I get from girls when I'm in a relationship. Having a girl friend can be very annoying and time consuming.

My main problem right now is an emotional one. At the moment I'm focused on my goals and I know they are very important. I just find that the need I have inside (like every man) to love a woman is getting in my way. There is no quick fix for this either. It is very distracting at times and I don't want it to be.

When a man becomes focused on his goals the last thing he needs are bull**** feelings to knock him aside.

I don't have time to DJ a bunch of girls. I need to complete my projects and improve aspects of my life first. Maybe there are other guys out there that have the same problem. I just can't ****en deal with this crap sometimes.

Are there any drugs I can take to forget about women so that I can get some work done?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A man handles his sh!t and gets things accomplished. Then, he has time for women. You come off as more of a challenge this way because you are in fact staying busy and not playing any particular game.
 

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Originally posted by TizZle
A man handles his sh!t and gets things accomplished. Then, he has time for women. You come off as more of a challenge this way because you are in fact staying busy and not playing any particular game.
I know this very well. I have for a long time now. The problem is that sometimes you just get hit from no place with a crazy feeling and it gets in the way.
 

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look dude just put aside those emotions for women until you get your **** together.

I got the same needs as you, but right now i have my goals and i still have to get my **** together, im lost now. Dont need a woman now to mess me up further, until i get my act straight...
 
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