Start here .Originally posted by kingNav
My question is, how do I find out if the prices of real estate in that area are at a high or a low..?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Start here .Originally posted by kingNav
My question is, how do I find out if the prices of real estate in that area are at a high or a low..?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Absolutely. I lived in my first purchase. In addition, a bank gives you much better terms on an owner occupied property. You're gonna pay rent anyways...Originally posted by Sire
Hey STR8UP,
I have a couple of quick questions for you. Do you think the best way for me to get my foot in the door of real estate investing would be to purchase my own home first? Will that help me in aquiring other properties in any way?
Good for you!I also just got Russ Whitney's, Building Wealth, Do you recommend any books for after I finish this one. Thanks for all your help. I'm hooked on this business now, and it's all your fault..lol![]()
Sire
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
My net worth is hard to say because I don't know how much my business is worth. I have about $90k in real estate equity ($72k of that will be turned into cash as soon as my refi's close). $50k of the refi money is going into a business overseas. Once the new biz is up and running it will further complicate an estimation of my net worth.Originally posted by Sleepless
STR8UP, would you mind revealing your current net worth and annual cash flow and contrasting it with what you were making as a bartender?
Yes, I have thought about contracting, but like I said, building isn't my thing. It's MUCH easier to make money buying an existing structure from a motivated seller.Originally posted by Brad23
Str8up, what's the situation with planning permission in your state, is it easy to get permission to build from the authorities?
Surely it must have crossed your mind to self-build considering the instant profit once the house has changed hands? Or are there hefty capital gains taxes?
I buy and hold, I don't sell.One thing is, how many properties have you actually sold on at a profit so far?
I don't get involved in anything but bread and butter properties. You usually can't go wrong there, especially if you hold onto them for awhile. Our local paper projected values here to increase by over 70% by 2010.I mean house prices do go down as well as up, but I take it things have been going well in your neck of the woods recently?
I'm not aware of insurance against bad tenants. I manage all of my own properties currently. Not too big of a deal.Str8up, do you insure yourself against bad tenants? And do you use an agency to collect rent, carry out repairs etc.?
Yes. Today's market seems to be tighter, but I could easily find numerous properties tomorrow that would support all of the payments and expenses.So your rental income really is enough to cover mortgage repayments AND the interest on the mortgage?
You will have to do your own research specific to your area. I can tell you that where there's a will, there's a way; so even if one method doesn't work for your area or situation you can always find another that will.Cos I am sure in the UK that rental income received would be enough to pay the mortgage, but not enough to pay the interest on the mortgage as well, which would still be a hefty sum out your account each month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I already did but it looks like you are gonna go thru with it anyways.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Would you have any advice for this?
I'm not going to endorse something I haven't reviewed.Originally posted by Aztec
It's hard to start without a live mentor who will work with you through REI. I'm wondering if Real Estate 101 http://www.creonline.com/catalog/c-201.html
is the next best thing to having a mentor. What's your take on it?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm sure you can understand why I'm hesitant to jump in to this kind of venture. It's not like we are trading baseball cards here, it involves buying and selling tens to hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of properties. I don't have have any business experience.Originally posted by STR8UP
I'm not going to endorse something I haven't reviewed.
For beginners I would recommend spending an afternoon at Barnes and Noble thumbing through real estate books by various authors and purchase the ones that teach methods that interest you.
You sound like you are sitting on the fence and you need someone to push you off because you are afraid to get started. JUST DO IT! It really isn't that bad. Start small. You'll see what I mean after you have one under your belt.
Good advice. The most difficult step aside from taking action is actually reversing your mindset. The same way you did when you stumbled upon this site as a hopeless loser with women.Originally posted by jwhite17
STR8UP,
Hey, I already read Rich Dad, poor dad, very interesting and very different than what people have told me all my life, aka get good grades to get into a good college to get a good job and then having to work for someone else your whole life and get them rich(by the way, if you are thinking about buying it, when you read it, keep on open mind).
That is the whole idea behind using the $1000 as collateral. The bank is risking nothing. If you default on the loan, they repo the funds in your account.My question is, will bank's be willing to give me a loan even though I don't have a job(in college F/T) and I don't have credit(don't have credit cards) and I'm 19?
Fukk the savings account. Only use one to stash your cash for a very short time until you are ready to do something productive with it.Should I get a credit card to help establish some credit? Or should I invest money in a IRA, savings account, etc? What do you suggest for aspiring entrepreneur?
Thanks
JW
Hesitation will cause you to ultimately fail, turning a bad deal and losing a few thousand dollars WON'T. If you are planning to inflict a painful death upon me the first time you lose some money, don't bother even trying. It's gonna happen. And you won't like it when it does. But LOSING is a necessary component to WINNING, contrary to popular belief.Originally posted by Aztec
I'm sure you can understand why I'm hesitant to jump in to this kind of venture. It's not like we are trading baseball cards here, it involves buying and selling tens to hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of properties. I don't have have any business experience.
But since it makes me excited just to think of what my future and my future family's future, I'm going to take your advice and tackle it.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.