Beginner, last drop today. Did not approach, again

[Dingdongwrong]

Hi, so I had to make an account for this because I need some perspective on ****.

I have not done my first day-game sober approach yet, and it is ****in killing me honestly. So thing is, basically every day some girl does some sort of semi-inviting ****, or just looks too much for not wanting anything. Examples:

A week ago I sat on the train, just chilling waiting to get to the god forsaken city I live in. So I am just sitting there, when this gorgeous girl walks on wearing just a big fkin jersey. It was the same length as a short skirt but whatever. She is sitting in front of me, so I only ser the back of her head, but starts to look out the window on the other side thus having to twist it 90 degree and catch looks. Whatever, she then goes up 3 stations early to smile at me, walk past, stand like half a merer away and start talking on the phone. Even though she sat right in front of the other exit, she walked past that one to stand there, which I take as a signal?

Then there are the girls who do the double-take, they look at me when I walk towards them or whatever, and lately Ive started to break ete contact early with strangera which suck ass and needs improvement, then I walk past and sit down or whatever and they look again, no smile or anything since I dont smile enough myself, another thing I nedd to work on. (Does close mouthed smile work or is it just shady as first impression, I honestly like mine?) and today she looked once more.

And then the girl that is the reason for the thread. So I sit on the subway and is looking straight at some people laughing and whatever, and I see out of the corner of my eye how she looks behind her shoulder, at me. And as soon as I turn she looks away, fine I think, maybe she wasn't interested. Then when we werr getting off, she turned around looked straight at me and it just felt so inviting, to me it was like she was saying: come talk to me with just that look.

Might I be overanalyzing the **** out of this? What could the other reasons be? Im a decent looking guy with a nice style and fine shoes.

The not knowing is the thing killing me, but when I sit there and am thinking about approaching I just get so in my head, trying to come up with **** to talk about or what not, cant, and then just say **** it. Obviously I can talk about basically anything, but its just that I want a plan beforehand so I dont **** up and then just trip myself with it.

Help!

 

[Dingdongwrong]

So today was a pretty good day I must say, I got "picked up" by a young good-looking girl(barely legal), which was frustrating but a confidence boost none the less. Since I dont want to find myself on a sexual offender list I gave her a fake number, really weird situation.

However, today I got a ton of looks when at the mall, **** was nuts. Does all girls return looks when looked at? Today they did at least, girls with boyfriends, daughters with fathers and what not. **** was crazy, not sure what was up but I liked it. The approach will come real soon, honestly tomorrow shold be the day

 

[Poop1337]

Barely legal means she was legal... So if she was attractive why in the fck did you give her a fake number and not instead exchange real contact info. You should have atleast had the balls to tell her how fcking lame you are and that she was too young for your tastes. Seriously smfh young attractive girl trumps old used up probably not attractive girl.

I need to start dong some day game myself. Haven't made any approaches since wednesday night. I don't look for invites though ignoring what you think might be an invite is especially frustrating and I have been guilty of that. I just look for openings to approach attractive girls whether or not they gave me any IOI's. Try to approach right away with out thinking. If you do get stuck in your head a good thing to tell yourself is what's the worst that will happen. Honestly the worst that will happen if you try to chat up a girl is probably nothing. If something wild and crazy does happen it's just a good story. The crazier things that have happened to me during approaches like girls being rude or boyfriends threatening to kick my ass have all happened during night game and that's rare and really just funny. During day game the worst thing that happened was a girl told me she was 17 and then I regretted not trying to get her number any ways so I could wish her a happy birthday lol

 

[Dingdongwrong]

Barely legal means she was legal... So if she was attractive why in the fck did you give her a fake number and not instead exchange real contact info. You should have atleast had the balls to tell her how fcking lame you are and that she was too young for your tastes. Seriously smfh young attractive girl trumps old used up probably not attractive girl.

I need to start dong some day game myself. Haven't made any approaches since wednesday night. I don't look for invites though ignoring what you think might be an invite is especially frustrating and I have been guilty of that. I just look for openings to approach attractive girls whether or not they gave me any IOI's. Try to approach right away with out thinking. If you do get stuck in your head a good thing to tell yourself is what's the worst that will happen. Honestly the worst that will happen if you try to chat up a girl is probably nothing. If something wild and crazy does happen it's just a good story. The crazier things that have happened to me during approaches like girls being rude or boyfriends threatening to kick my ass have all happened during night game and that's rare and really just funny. During day game the worst thing that happened was a girl told me she was 17 and then I regretted not trying to get her number any ways so I could wish her a happy birthday lol

Well thing is im 21, live in Poland where the age of consent is 15, and her telling me about how we can pretend shes 15 was a bit much. But since it must have taken some courage and for a lack of better term big balls to do what ahe did I didnt want her to feel too bad.

That sounds like a better plan, just approach whether she likes me or not, the other way I feel I can maybe spark attraction through good body language and eye contact. For example, if I held prolonged eye contact and got her to smile im good to go and it feels much less like a numbers game, or am I wrong? Yeah I guess that is true with the story and what not.