Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
This thread may not be that useful to many guys on here but wanted an opinion.
Have a girl in my close social group that I was in a 9 month relationship/FB setup that ended 10 months ago. I wouldn't commit to her and may have over played the a**hole game a bit however the relationship ended abruptly after a stint of bad behavior from her to which I laid the law down big time (Left her a$$ in the middle of no where for being disrespectful.) This lead to a text conversation a few days later letting her know she would be in the rearview mirror if she acted like that again (I was pretty bogus in the things I said - pretty much told her she don't mean sh*t) She took the bate and ran with it breaking up with me reciting that I didn't give a f*ck about her basically. I told her she was a great chick but I agree with decision and than that was it.
I never back slid or lost frame, nor gave a f*ck when it was over. Never talked about sh*t afterwards. I had plates on the side and this girl is a strong 6 at best so saying see ya wasn't hard for me. Welp, since then 10 months, it is well known that I have had multiple slam pieces and am currently dating her much more attractive good friend. I have a bit of a reputation in my social circle. She on the other hand has not dated anyone, rarely even goes out, has had radio silence on social media w guys, and spends a lot of time with her family. ?
Aaannnnd She hates me now. All I really care about is being friends as we are going to be around eachother for a long time to come. Sporadic friendly gestures by me to reach out are met with awkwardness unless they are consistent on my end but I'm not even on it like that so why would I sweat her? She was super awkward around my now main slam piece up until about 2 months ago. She is feisty and fragile like Sandra Bullock and stubborn as they come. She would rather rot away in anger than admit she has a problem. Her mom is a successful nut who has her dad whipped and was smacking me upside the head calling me an @$$hole the last time we ran into eachother lol.
10 MONTHS YO! Should I tell this b*tch to just get over me? Ask her if she has something that she wants to talk about? Has unresolved feelings or what? I'm about to be having her room mates out on my boat this summer and want her to feel ok about coming along. Weird situation - she's a cool chick and I feel bad that we can't be friends.
Have a girl in my close social group that I was in a 9 month relationship/FB setup that ended 10 months ago. I wouldn't commit to her and may have over played the a**hole game a bit however the relationship ended abruptly after a stint of bad behavior from her to which I laid the law down big time (Left her a$$ in the middle of no where for being disrespectful.) This lead to a text conversation a few days later letting her know she would be in the rearview mirror if she acted like that again (I was pretty bogus in the things I said - pretty much told her she don't mean sh*t) She took the bate and ran with it breaking up with me reciting that I didn't give a f*ck about her basically. I told her she was a great chick but I agree with decision and than that was it.
I never back slid or lost frame, nor gave a f*ck when it was over. Never talked about sh*t afterwards. I had plates on the side and this girl is a strong 6 at best so saying see ya wasn't hard for me. Welp, since then 10 months, it is well known that I have had multiple slam pieces and am currently dating her much more attractive good friend. I have a bit of a reputation in my social circle. She on the other hand has not dated anyone, rarely even goes out, has had radio silence on social media w guys, and spends a lot of time with her family. ?
Aaannnnd She hates me now. All I really care about is being friends as we are going to be around eachother for a long time to come. Sporadic friendly gestures by me to reach out are met with awkwardness unless they are consistent on my end but I'm not even on it like that so why would I sweat her? She was super awkward around my now main slam piece up until about 2 months ago. She is feisty and fragile like Sandra Bullock and stubborn as they come. She would rather rot away in anger than admit she has a problem. Her mom is a successful nut who has her dad whipped and was smacking me upside the head calling me an @$$hole the last time we ran into eachother lol.
10 MONTHS YO! Should I tell this b*tch to just get over me? Ask her if she has something that she wants to talk about? Has unresolved feelings or what? I'm about to be having her room mates out on my boat this summer and want her to feel ok about coming along. Weird situation - she's a cool chick and I feel bad that we can't be friends.