“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BEFORE YOU go Sarging know this!

Badmannaz

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ok im doing a journal right now but haven't been doing any approaches lately...i've been on the grind (school, work out, job etc) so for the next couple weeks im amping up my game...

but while i'm here and w/ a little experience in the field o think i should throw out somethings you need to know and place deep in your mind before you go out sarging my good friends..for alot these things are already known to you but for some...they totally have had no-idea the whole time.....



1. think!!!!!
ok so 1st is 1st....be4 you even step out you need to think about what kind of person you are...are you funny?? are you an a**hole?? what kind of girl would be compatible for you?? you say to yourself "man i really want a nice girl" the most likely you want to try a library coffee house or even your local shopping mart.. open your mind in what kind of women you want and go there

dress for success
This is were most of us go wrong...lot of you say "dude you don't have to dress nice to pull chicks" and your absolutely right...instead of dressing formal or casual or whatever....once again think about the girl that you plan on going for...if your looking for a prep girl you might want to try something a little more prep ...goth chick?? try something a little more dark lolz...i've noticed girls usually date guys in similar taste as them.. this is not always correct but the percentage is fairly high when your leaning towards her taste...a don juan must have versatility when in the field..so keep this in mind


NoW

PREPARE TO GET REJECTED
It's as simple as that, whatever you do....do not pull your hopes up high in the sky get rejected once and go home with your d!ck tucked between your legs...this is the simple point that seperates you from that loser who's getting the chick you should have had...you say you want five numbers by the end of the night?? well your going to have to try atleast 15-20 girls just to get 2....women think completely different than guys...they are pickers and choosers..while we're take whatever that looks good enough...even the hottest looking guys get rejected..i've seen it..i have friends that are alphaz who get rejected every day all day but have conditioned themeselves...it might hurt the 1st time...you might say "Man she didn't even notice me, man no girl will notice me" NO NO NO!! every single women on this planet thinks different than the next...that girl might not like you but the girl right behind her might think your the hottest thing on the planet..it's your job as the man to figure that out...

No, SHE's not going to APPRoach YOU

Your sitting there with your friends eating at your local food joint...then all of a sudden a little hottie walks in and she's constantly glancing your way...your scared..so you do nothing...she walks out and you say to your friend "dude she totally wanted me" face it man your AFC to the T....or you say "dude no girl likes me" OK you see women walking around all day and none really smile or talk to you...the reason is A.SHE doesn't know you and B.GIRLS DON'T APPROACH GUYS!!! now for a few lucky b/-\sterds there good looking enough were all kinds approach or just stay in his proximity and he really never has to work at it..but for us regular joes...your going to have to talk some game...watch those IOI's and approach..if a girl is glancing at you approach..if she's not and you want her approach....but the average women will not approach you..she's just as scared as you..

They want men
also you might want to drop this in your mind be4 going out...your a man...people speak on sosuave all the time about this...and you seriously wonder why these hotties are dating that guy you know your better than?? it's because he had the BALLZ to say some REAL SH!T to her...we all wonder why girls dress up extremely sexy right??? most likely she wants a man it's your job to step up and take the job...some might say NOW if your not sure what this really means i'll explain...a MAN is the provider...the muscle the protection...and...he's in control...no women wants a p*ssy she already has that...so if your caring about her feelings wanting to worship her every three seconds..calling her every 2 seconds...most likely she's gonna lose interest pretty quick...a man walks tall...is confident and he takes what he wants when he wants...if she doesn't want you you be a gentleman and let it b...approaching and letting her know your intentions up front makes you look brave makes you look like a man...and gives you a greater chance at walking away with that number....women can also sense if your a p*ssy or not...i've talked to a few women about us guys and what we do that usually f*cks up our chances...all had similar awnser...."when your looking at us don't break eye contact..if you do.then we know your weak" i was likeWOAH!! this was some sh&T i totally did not pay attention too...women need to be intimidated by us...they need to feel as if they have no power over you and you are in a control...and now you wonder why all these great gals are dating huge muscle head jerks??? it's simple...there just men...you can be too without the leather jacket :up: ...and that means you can't be shy...stop thinking and go into action...it's not our job to think at this point...confidence can take you a long way..believe in yourself and it might land you in her bed in a couple days :up: :cool:

women aren't scary and nothing to be worshipped
....Just talking to any women (old,fat pretty,young,hot w/e) will better your chances...talking to your fellaz all the time and not talking to women will leave you stranded in convo when talking to a women..because you don't know how to conversate with women...guys that are the best at getting women talk to them constantly..whether it be sisters aunts..the women who gave him his change back at a local food mart etc....so by the time your out sarging talking to a girl is nothing...why should it be?? she just a girl!! nothing more nothing less..

LAST= know yourself
Man whatever you do don't forget that your worth something...your probably depressed because you can't get a girl...the truth is there are girls who are depressed because they can't find YOU!!! be4 you go out in the field just say to yourself..."i'm as good as that guy" smile and go get rejected...keep on going and you will find one or maybe two or maybe three...Being comfortable with yourself is the key to being a PUA


in all just have fun and get a girl...the reason why your on sosuave is to get a chick right?? (or your having probs with one lolz) but know that the remedy to a rejection is another girls smile.just know that your never gonna get the chick you want unless you get out there and take her....:D :cool: :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Badmannaz said:
PREPARE TO GET REJECTED
It's as simple as that, whatever you do....do not pull your hopes up high in the sky get rejected once and go home with your d!ck tucked between your legs...this is the simple point that seperates you from that loser who's getting the chick you should have had...you say you want five numbers by the end of the night?? well your going to have to try atleast 15-20 girls just to get 2....women think completely different than guys...they are pickers and choosers..while we're take whatever that looks good enough...even the hottest looking guys get rejected..i've seen it..i have friends that are alphaz who get rejected every day all day but have conditioned themeselves...it might hurt the 1st time...you might say "Man she didn't even notice me, man no girl will notice me" NO NO NO!! every single women on this planet thinks different than the next...that girl might not like you but the girl right behind her might think your the hottest thing on the planet..it's your job as the man to figure that out...
The important thing is how to get off on your own autopilot and dont feel rejected or hurt. I'm still working on that one myself with NLP.
 

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dress for success​
Man this is critical, if you look raggery the women know you must treat the others areas of your life the same way. That's why nice shoes are critical!

K
 

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Kumar said:
Man this is critical, if you look raggery the women know you must treat the others areas of your life the same way. That's why nice shoes are critical!

K
Yeah I need to work in that area badly. I'm trying to get a make-over and figure out a style that looks good for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Freddy1 said:
Yeah I need to work in that area badly. I'm trying to get a make-over and figure out a style that looks good for me.
Man, start by looking at fashion mags and choose a style, then go to the mall and ask the sales women what style you would look good in. Pay attention to what they said and don't argue with them, just listen and pay attention then you can decide on your own if they are right.

also, you build your wardrobe one piece at a time, you don't have to break the bank out of a sudden.

K
 

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Kumar said:
Man, start by looking at fashion mags and choose a style, then go to the mall and ask the sales women what style you would look good in. Pay attention to what they said and don't argue with them, just listen and pay attention then you can decide on your own if they are right.

also, you build your wardrobe one piece at a time, you don't have to break the bank out of a sudden.

K
I forgot about checking out fashion mags. I never thought of asking the sales woman. Hey thank Dude for the good suggestions! :up:
I'm going to pay attention for sure! I go for one thing at a time like you suggest. Its a good ideal.
 
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