"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Before Sunrise

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I bought this movie the other day, and I'd be a criminal if I didn't reccomend it to all you guys who love patterns and conversational pieces to use in jams. The main character Ethan Hawke has a romantic yet comedic personality that works well in this day and age. He uses tons of routines that you can implement in your game and topics and ideas. Trust me when I say this is a good movie. Even the girl has routines and insight you can use
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks man. I'm going to check it out this weekend.
 

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I own and love both sunrise and sunset, but to say that these people are using routines is kinda silly to me. I have had a few conversational dates just walking around a city with a girl, and I didn't have to rely on any "routines". Simple listening and responding, thats it, no routine nessecary.

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Yeah definetly no routines, he just talked and was generally interested in the conversation. I own both movies and definetly recomend both. (But you do have to apreciate non-action movies.)
 

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when i say routines, I don't mean patterns, i mean ROUTINES...something interesting you say that guides them in the right direction... Just giving people an idea on how to guide women towards the kind of conversation that gets you somewhere other than friendzone.I bought Before Sunrise...I've seen Before Sunset, but haven't managed the funds to buy it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This film was wicked, i watched it with my gf and she fell in love with it and i could see her getting tranced by the actions of the characters. However, i thought some of the stuff he pulled was a little too late and a little too stupid. I didnt actually realise there was a Before Sunset. Im gonna buy the pair of them.
 
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