"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Before Sosuave and After Sosuave - Where do you stand?
- Thread starter Climax
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
mariosex
Don Juan
never kissed a girl
now -
approached quite alot
~25 numbers
lost count of chicks ive hooked up with
fondling with 4 or so
banged 2
and way happier!
before : 3
after : 6.5
im going all the way to 10! cant wait ^_^
SynapsyS
Don Juan
Now: 9
I joined up a few weeks ago because I was reading a link from the Bootcamp, and thought i'd actually join up. I've been working on this stuff for over a year now, so I doubt i've improved from an 9 in only a couple of weeks
Syn.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Only picked up 9 girls and slept with 1 at 21 years of age. Had picked up 1 girl from start of this year until end of June.
Now 8
Picked up 13 chicks since July. Slept with 5, had 4 ****buddies at one stage. Starting to pick up 8s and 9s. Have one ****buddy now, and tonight I have two extremely hot girls I have lined up to pick up. One being the hottest girl I have ever seen
:woo:
.illadelph
Don Juan
i've managed to get a few girls numbers and i've asked them to movies, and they said yes. my social life has been boosted big time. i belive it all started w/my job @ hollister. it made me more social and laid back. i'm slowly becoming the DJ i want to be. i'm a senior, but i'm trying to intice some jrs. interest so they can invite me to jr. prom...
Before: about 3
Right now: 8 or 9
The major breakthrough for me (after reading the DJ Bible, and reading it again, and again) was to realize what I wanted in life. Being successful with women is just a small part of the big picture. Once I got that, I took control of my life and since then, everyday's a special day, full of opportunities.
-Bill,
kind of back on the boards !
þ†~VígøRóù§~
Don Juan
BEfore this site 10
Now 15
Alittle ****Y? nah im beyond a 10
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
absorb..but i have been at seduction for about two years
(i prefer seduction over pick up ,but thats just me)
right now i am about an 8 on inner game
and about a 3 on outer game..only because i really don't care
what i say or how i am percieved. and am too damn lazy to
practice canned lines.i guess being called a "big meanie" by chicks dosen't help much...If i learn how to be more friendly
and condiderate as well as overcoming my general negativity
towards females then i would be at a 10
i am the jerk boyfriend that girls cry to her wussy guy friends about...:crackup:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
after 6.5 and still got loads to learn and practice
i hope to be a "GOD" women will orgasm when i just look at them and everywhere women will fall at my feet
......... we can all dream cant we........hahahaha
BrazilianDJ
New Member
NOW=> 9