"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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comic_relief

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did this post really need three times to be up because this was that important? :D

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
It was unintenional - it was only meant for once

Moderators have been informed!

Thankyou

Sarge On...
I figured as much. Your no troll :D

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And which tips do you think are actually good for the first page, shizzler, Just out of curiousity?:cool:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lebRambo

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler

2. Convo Game and Venue Change - LebRambo
I disagree. This poster has no place being on the boards, let alone posting tips. Ban the fool. :cool:

seriously though, does no one like the convo game?
 

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I agree too, especially with including real life examples of the tip in use.

There's nothing wrong with coming up with theories, just please test them before you post them. Afterall, if it's good enough to share, it's good enough to try first hand.
 

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and he wasn't using sarcasm
 

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
No no - I was saying that your tip was helpful!

Keep It up!

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lmao! :crackup:

i was being sarcastic dude. or...maybe you were being sarcastic as well.... :confused:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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