"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Before I even **** anything up

S.Y.L

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There is this girl in one of my classes this year, shes a year younger than me, and shes new to my school (she moved from a nearby school). She is like 9/10, and she knows a few people at school, not many though.


I talked to her on the first day in our class, basically we went around doing a sheet, and I introduced myself, and said hey.

Before I screw anything up, what should the next step be. I'm sick of ****ing things up, I'm 17 and have never had a gf or anything, even though I've read every thing on this site, and I work out, I'm in good shape, and have even been asked to work at Hollister.

Just gimme some help lmao.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My suggestion would be to try to open with situational openers, n start to kino... but know that before building comfort she needs to be attracted, n high school chicks love guys who r funny or hve gud social proof.

So simply, do that n always be alpha - remeber ur the prize not her.

Btw wen u wanna number close... this line works pretty well " Me n some of the guys r chillin this week u shud hangout with us" or " were goin somwhere this week u shud tag along, is ther a number i can contact u at?"

Notice that ur not askin her, ur telling her she shud hangout with u.

N remeber be cool, calm, n collected.

I couldve probly given u better advice in more detail, but im on a time limit here. Hope it goes well bro.
 

War Against Betaism

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Like I said in another topic, I'm hammered right now, but I'm upset that my other topic that I created didn't get much attention:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=164927

It seems that people in high school only want to hear what they want to hear; the alpha male or ****y and funny line that will INSTANTLY get them pvssy in a second. I thought that topic I created was very THOROUGH in what is required at the high school level. I won't say that I'm very popular, but I'm part of a clique that is very very well known in the LA and OC area, especially amongst the high school crowd, and there are many many many naturals that are a part of it or at least associated with the clique, and I've been studying what made them the way they are for the past couple months.

Here's the ONLY thing that you're missing in this situation right now...confidence. How do I know you're lacking it? Because you decided to make this topic. You've been on this forums for pretty long so I already assume what you know what comes next. Rapport at the high school level is imo the MOST important part of game. I'll be straight up with you... don't expect to get far with this women. I know it's not the thing you want to hear, but everyone has to make mistakes; where you start to truly improve yourself is how you build upon your mistakes.
 

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S.Y.L said:
There is this girl in one of my classes this year, shes a year younger than me, and shes new to my school (she moved from a nearby school). She is like 9/10, and she knows a few people at school, not many though.


I talked to her on the first day in our class, basically we went around doing a sheet, and I introduced myself, and said hey.

Before I screw anything up, what should the next step be. I'm sick of ****ing things up, I'm 17 and have never had a gf or anything, even though I've read every thing on this site, and I work out, I'm in good shape, and have even been asked to work at Hollister.

Just gimme some help lmao.

Son I'm dissapoint
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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War Against Betaism said:
Like I said in another topic, I'm hammered right now, but I'm upset that my other topic that I created didn't get much attention:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=164927

It seems that people in high school only want to hear what they want to hear; the alpha male or ****y and funny line that will INSTANTLY get them pvssy in a second. I thought that topic I created was very THOROUGH in what is required at the high school level. I won't say that I'm very popular, but I'm part of a clique that is very very well known in the LA and OC area, especially amongst the high school crowd, and there are many many many naturals that are a part of it or at least associated with the clique, and I've been studying what made them the way they are for the past couple months.

Here's the ONLY thing that you're missing in this situation right now...confidence. How do I know you're lacking it? Because you decided to make this topic. You've been on this forums for pretty long so I already assume what you know what comes next. Rapport at the high school level is imo the MOST important part of game. I'll be straight up with you... don't expect to get far with this women. I know it's not the thing you want to hear, but everyone has to make mistakes; where you start to truly improve yourself is how you build upon your mistakes.
Yeah, I know. I had the most confidence in the world before and during summer, I was just randomly talking to chick who I didn't know, winking at chicks in malls, and getting phone numbers like nothing.Then it was weird, as soon as I went back on the second day of school to find out my classes, Its like I just lost it all, as soon I was in them. I usually act like the kid who just yells out stuff in classes and be obnoxious, and make fun of the teacher, but there's a few kids in some of my classes, that I don't want to annoy or something, and this just took away all my confidence, because they would instantly say something to offend me back. Last year was good because, In all of my classes, except for 1 or 2, I was the total alpha male in every class.
 

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S.Y.L said:
Their shirts make me look swole, jus sayin
So does Diesel's, Banana Republics, ANY good designer name. Don't wear that phucking garbage, people really look down on people who wear that crap.
 

S.Y.L

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Beavis said:
So does Diesel's, Banana Republics, ANY good designer name. Don't wear that phucking garbage, people really look down on people who wear that crap.
So thats why a good 60-75% of the chicks at my school wear it? Including this one
 
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