"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rollo Tomassi

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This is pretty funny:

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=15181992

I did a post about this song not too long ago, and about how it's considered socially acceptable for a woman to basically commit acts of vandalism so long as it's excused by a Man's indiscretions. I got a lot of "oh, it's just a song Rollo, cut 'em some slack, nobody takes this sh!t to heart" responses when I did. However I think it's pretty sobering that so many women in the audience in this clip have memorized the lyrics to the point that they can sing them back verbatim without even prompting them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I agree: it's hypcrisy and double standard in the purest form. The fact it has to be explained to people is the puzzler.
 

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i saw an episode of judge judy where she had to tell some chick that even though she was mad at someone that it did not mean that she had to go and vandalize their vehicle and that vandalizing property was illegal and then awarded the other person for all damages.
if you see it on judge judy, clearly people do not understand there is no justification for vandalism.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You might be comforted, Rollo, by the fact that there was an equally famous country song about a cheating wife, called "mamma's in the graveyard, pappa's in the penn".
 

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Phyzzle said:
You might be comforted, Rollo, by the fact that there was an equally famous country song about a cheating wife, called "mamma's in the graveyard, pappa's in the penn".
And how many men in a club on a given night do you suppose would be singing along with it word for word? Even the ones who don't normally listen to country?
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
This is pretty funny:

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=15181992

I did a post about this song not too long ago, and about how it's considered socially acceptable for a woman to basically commit acts of vandalism so long as it's excused by a Man's indiscretions. I got a lot of "oh, it's just a song Rollo, cut 'em some slack, nobody takes this sh!t to heart" responses when I did. However I think it's pretty sobering that so many women in the audience in this clip have memorized the lyrics to the point that they can sing them back verbatim without even prompting them.

Shhh, i dont think where allowed to talk about 'man hate'!

It's only women hate that needs to be exposed.

But yeh the double standered is frightning, the fact alot of women will buy this cra* is testiment to reasons why i like to stay single and keep FB rather then GF.

Also other song's

'Every time i see you cry it makes me smile'
populer with the girls also.

'You make me suicidal'
Number one in the UK, the biggest AFC song since:

'I love you yes i do going to spend all my money on you'

Lets not mention some of the mainstream lesbian magazines out where it depicts the main character slaughtering men with axes e.t.c for simply being 'male'!

At least you have your eyes open not like most, some poeple think its not that bad, well i too hate it when i see the drones 'spout out this drival'

Hell a girl i am sleeping with has the 'you make me suicidal' song has your dam ring tone!

Women constant double standard’s is awash in the western sphere, try not to mention this male hate too much, you maybe labled a misogynist.
 

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Well, on the bright side RT, that last verse he added was hilarious. :D Glass is half full occasionally RT. ;) Good find!

Women just vent occasionally for the way things are. Its therapy. Better to let them sing some of that built-up frustration out than hold it inside. I'm sure most of them don't actually mean it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jonwon said:
Shhh, i dont think where allowed to talk about 'man hate'!

It's only women hate that needs to be exposed.

But yeh the double standered is frightning, the fact alot of women will buy this cra* is testiment to reasons why i like to stay single and keep FB rather then GF.

Also other song's

'Every time i see you cry it makes me smile'
populer with the girls also.
I'm having trouble identify with the "feeling slighted" feeling. Actually, that's putting it modestly (since I don't identify with it at all). Again, cup half full, I think its this way because we are, as a matter of fact, in the advantaged position. They vent with these songs and versus, and exactly nothing changes. Not only that, many of us here are armed with DJ principles that easily puts us in the top 10% of that advantaged gender. God I'm glad I'm male; anything else would definitely be a downgrade. I say lets throw a party instead of lamenting.

USAA is more worried about my car potentially being vandalized than I am.
 

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azanon said:
I'm having trouble identify with the "feeling slighted" feeling. Actually, that's putting it modestly (since I don't identify with it at all). Again, cup half full, I think* its this way because we are, as a matter of fact*, in the advantaged position.
I'm having trouble with your presumption that something you "*think" suddenly becomes "*a matter of fact" later in the sentence. That's the quality sleight-of-hand maneuvers I use on logic-deprived hbs in the field.

You presume males The Privileged Sex - without providing a single example of what makes it so. Without examples to bolster what is (in fact) your personal opinion, it becomes no better than hearsay.
 

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Anyone else think it's weird that no one criticizes the girls in the clip "2 girls 1 cup?" Those women in the clip should be in jail for doing something so immoral.
 
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